Maintaining an H relationship

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Please focus on the title of this thread rather than each other, TY

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For advice on how to shop at your local store please do a search in Hermes Shopping sub-forum and look for your store/region/country.
 
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getthebag said:
Thank you! If they claim your bag is impossible to get why don’t they offer you a SO? Seems like you’re due for one being one of their best clients.
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I know, right? I wish I mentioned that during my last conversation with my SA, still kicking myself lmao. I’m kind of over it at this point. Like you said, the whole situation is iffy and I’m not sure if my SA is being genuine. I gave them benefit of the doubt too many times.

If they offer me what I want, great, if not, I’d rather work on a more rewarding relationship.
 
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880 said:
In the US flagships and Maisons, I believe the general consensus is 2.
if I recall correctly, our Canadian threads say 1?
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Hi 880!

First and foremost, I want to say thank you for all the posts you’ve written - I’ve truly learned a lot and I am sure it has helped many of us here that loves H. I was wondering if you could give me advice on my next/second qb. I have not brought up this with my SA since I haven’t really spent much since my first offer but I still make small remote purchases when something comes in and I recently went in to see my SA for a shopping trip recently. I genuinely enjoy going in and I feel that my SA and I bond and have a great relationship. Do you feel that it’s best to wait for my SA to bring up my next wishlist or should I have an open conversation on what I would like next? I’m not in any hurry since I’ll need to grow my money tree. I’ll be more than happy to just get one bag a year vs two :)
If you think that I should bring it up, should I wait closer to a certain spend? Of course, I am only purchasing things that I really like and will enjoy. I also hope to one day get offered a SO :)
Thank you so much in advance!
 
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I wanted to update everyone on my “did I misstep with my SA?” saga etc.

I visited the store today and my SA was working. I had reached out several times via text but I did not receive a response from her, even when I asked for a specific time to come in. She was very friendly in person, gave hugs to my partner and I etc. I will at this point chalk it up to her being a bad texter or me just not being an established enough client. I ended up purchasing a twilly and a pair of mules. She took time to go through several different shoes with me and explore twilly options to match a dress. I hope things are good going forward; she is lovely to work with in person.
 
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Just updating you all on my journey to 2nd quota bag (im ok with it being next year, or whenever it comes). I listened to y’all and didn’t update my wish list or anything, reached out asking if my sa have received chypre in my size I’ve been waiting for and they said they’ll continue keeping an eye out (nothing came in) and then mentioned they’re looking forward to receiving my updated bag wishlist! O_0 So now I need to respond to them but I’m not sure if I want a b in gold on gold or k in gold on gold. Or did they mean non quota bags?? What should I doooo? lollll.
 
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getthebag said:
Just updating you all on my journey to 2nd quota bag (im ok with it being next year, or whenever it comes). I listened to y’all and didn’t update my wish list or anything, reached out asking if my sa have received chypre in my size I’ve been waiting for and they said they’ll continue keeping an eye out (nothing came in) and then mentioned they’re looking forward to receiving my updated bag wishlist! O_0 So now I need to respond to them but I’m not sure if I want a b in gold on gold or k in gold on gold. Or did they mean non quota bags?? What should I doooo? lollll.
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Decide what you truly want and then tell them!
 
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getthebag said:
Just updating you all on my journey to 2nd quota bag (im ok with it being next year, or whenever it comes). I listened to y’all and didn’t update my wish list or anything, reached out asking if my sa have received chypre in my size I’ve been waiting for and they said they’ll continue keeping an eye out (nothing came in) and then mentioned they’re looking forward to receiving my updated bag wishlist! O_0 So now I need to respond to them but I’m not sure if I want a b in gold on gold or k in gold on gold. Or did they mean non quota bags?? What should I doooo? lollll.
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I’d say put both down! And whichever you get, it’ll be meant to be :)
 
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Hi guys, hope you are having a great weekend! I know we already discussed this topic, but I need input again. My SA‘s birthday is coming.I was thinking of cupcakes or something along those lines. I don’t live near my store so can I send my gift via courier? they will accept the shipment :confused1:
 
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rkys12 said:
Hi guys, hope you are having a great weekend! I know we already discussed this topic, but I need input again. My SA‘s birthday is coming.I was thinking of cupcakes or something along those lines. I don’t live near my store so can I send my gift via courier? they will accept the shipment :confused1:
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Any gifts sent to the store are intended for the entire team, not individual SA’s.

A card or text message will suffice.
 
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rkys12 said:
Hi guys, hope you are having a great weekend! I know we already discussed this topic, but I need input again. My SA‘s birthday is coming.I was thinking of cupcakes or something along those lines. I don’t live near my store so can I send my gift via courier? they will accept the shipment :confused1:
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You could send flowers. The whole team would get to enjoy it as well as your SA
 
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