I’m going to weigh in on this one.
Jonny is an officer in the British Army, not a celebrity. I think the word ’appreciation’ in this thread’s title should be the guide. Appreciation doesn’t mean stalking the poor chap relentlessly, digging up old photos that are no body’s business but his, his family and his friends, or speculating on his personal life. Delving into his personal life has nothing to do with ‘appreciation’.
I can remember some years ago, long before he became a social media sensation when he and his family still felt comfortable having social media accounts, someone commented on a picture of Jonny in his kilt performing his duties. The comment was something about “the hottie in the kilt”. After some embarrassingly drooling replies, his Dad popped up and posted a reply saying “That’s my son you are talking about…”.
Perhaps that is what should be remembered. He is a father, son, brother, uncle, cousin. And a lot of comments in many social media channels are often inappropriate. His young child is now at school, and I doubt Jonny thought there would be a time where his notoriety would mean he had to deal with his child being subjected to playground discussion and gossip about him.
If Jonny wanted to be a celebrity, and the world to know his business, I’m sure he could make public comments or posts own photos etc. Instead, he locked down all his social media and asked his family and friends to do the same. He has remained steadfastly silent despite clamours for interviews etc., which should indicate to all that he has no enthusiasm for the public’s interest in anything but his public duties.
Speculation on his private life is unwarranted. Those who know, know. Those who don’t, have no need to do so. IF, and I repeat, IF, he and his wife are no longer together, what business is it of anyone’s apart from those they wish to know? IF he is separated or divorced what difference does it make to simple appreciation of an honourable man going about his duties in an exemplary way? Would it change anyone’s life knowing if he is single, married, gay, straight, bi, looking, or with a new partner. He is still the person we appreciate without us having that knowledge. And IF he has been through a marriage breakup, imagine how much more difficult it would have been trying not to have it a matter for endless speculation, especially as it could affect his child? And IF he was trying to establish a new relationship, imagine how challenging that would be with constant scrutiny?
That he continues to perform his duties with charm, grace, and a smile, is a testament to the qualities we admire and appreciate in him. That he is ridiculously good looking doesn’t go unnoticed, but that is as far as it should go.
He has been thrust into the spotlight simply because of a twist of fate, and because he is good at his job. He is good at his job because he has dedicated himself to being the best he can as an officer.
My husband was an officer in the Army so I know what is involved. The training, study, exams, assessments etc. required to progress up the ranks and to be confirmed past a short service commission, intermediate commission, and to achieve a regular commission. These days it does not just happen on a nod and a wink. It takes talent, dedication and application. Being a pretty face doesn’t have anything to do with it.
Seeing Jonny being photoshopped with 'sexy' designer stubble’etc is very sad. It goes completely against all the regulations of how an office should present himself, and although Jonny is good natured and takes most of the attention in good part, I’m sure that sort of thing doesn’t amuse him.
Free speech is a right, and those who want to speculate will continue to do so. It would just be nice if people questioned if there is a desperate necessity before they did.