Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you....The two definitely can't be compared. Not to diminish anyone's struggles with infertility... But as someone who had struggled with infertility and is now dealing with terminal cancer, I can say that the two are absolutely not the same. I would say my cancer diagnosis absolutely overshadowed everything I went through with my infertility diagnosis.
I would say that if all you get is the infertility diagnosis, it is devastating in and of itself.