I have to agree with the poster who said to update your CV.
Honestly, it sounds like these people have their own issues and you are being projected upon. They think you should do xyz and fit abc mold, and you don't. Unless you want to be an ill-fitting panted, cardigan wearing, drinking and driving employee, the culture is not a fit.
I hear lots of jealous things from them from your posts - weight issues, perceived wealth inequality, hurry up and have a baby like us and validate our own choices...
Sometimes it's just best to move on and find your peeps instead of trying to fit a square peg in a round hole.
To make you feel any better, I have a similar story....not a workplace but I've experienced this in the workplace too. My first husband came from a small town. I have always been a career oriented girl with glamorous grandmas who pounded in my head that one should never, ever, look a mess. So one day, sitting around the kitchen table with my then MIL and her friends (all of whom were wearing really dumpy clothes) were talking about our recent marriage. The ladies started literally cackling "oh, I can't wait until she gains weight" and there was much rubbing hands in glee. I was horrified.
