Influencers and Hermes

[Gin&H]

Frankly thought the display was tacky and sick in the head. I couldn’t believe the number of comments gushing over this level of materialism and consumerism. It says a lot about what society is focused on today. Success isn’t measured by the throngs of orange boxes around the Christmas tree. And much of what we see in social media is make believe. I see success as being kind to others and giving back. Whatever happened to the true meaning of Christmas?

Edit - also can we please stop normalizing excessive shopping on social media? It blows my mind when I see people with closets of 100 plus bags and multiple shelves and racks of clothing. I think there needs to be more focus on appreciating what we already have. There are also things money can never buy.

I understand the critique but feel like a forum dedicated to luxury shopping really isn’t the place to be turning up your nose at over the top shopping spree/hauls. We’ve had posters on this forum that have shared what some would deem as excessive shopping it it’s always met with celebratory type responses. Because this is the kind of place for those things. Just like certain corners of social media are.

Agree here @SDC2003, one has to have the mindset to know how to give, care, share, be kind & thoughtful
but too many are spending time filling their closets to show & tell .There is a huge disconnect &
sense of superficiality, but too many just don't have the emotional depth & sadly this is the
direction of the world.
The world is changing & even with people that were raised with wealth are finding these social
media scenarios pathetic, unrealistic & offensive, JMO
At the end of the day there is no better feeling than "giving back".. You can't buy that for $$$$$$$

I actually agree with both ends of the spectrum. Absolutely, people should be kind, caring and genuine human beings.

Unfortunately we know that’s not the reality. In my line of work, I see too many sad situations where society has failed people or people have hurt other people. No matter how much I give financially, volunteer, or give my time to my work, sometimes at the end of the long day, there’s not much more of my time I can give to another human being. I call my mom, hug my husband and my pup, pop onto TPF to share in other TPFers’ joy of their beautiful pieces or occasionally watch a YT video to just look at beautiful items.

I hope many are in the same situation, where they do give back and try to be good people but just sometimes watch these superficial YT videos to unwind and aren’t actually glamorizing or trying to mimic these “influencers”. Just my 2 cents.

Sorry for the long rambling post above…To stay on topic, I enjoy watching Colorful Noir on YT who talks about how she was obsessed with H and luxury shopping but is now much more mindful and intentional with her spending.

 

[chanellover333]

Frankly thought the display was tacky and sick in the head. I couldn’t believe the number of comments gushing over this level of materialism and consumerism. It says a lot about what society is focused on today. Success isn’t measured by the throngs of orange boxes around the Christmas tree. And much of what we see in social media is make believe. I see success as being kind to others and giving back. Whatever happened to the true meaning of Christmas?

Edit - also can we please stop normalizing excessive shopping on social media? It blows my mind when I see people with closets of 100 plus bags and multiple shelves and racks of clothing. I think there needs to be more focus on appreciating what we already have. There are also things money can never buy.

Exactly. Last time I said this on this forum I got attacked.

People need to recognize what social media has done to consumerism is dangerous. For our environment, our mental health, and the workforce making these items, etc. Hermes is not immune to these criticisms, obviously it is has less of an environmental footprint than say SheIn, but still. I always see the financial argument - well they’re just rich etc. Yeah many people including many of us on TPF can afford to spend significantly more than what we do and intentionally choose not to because we recognize what unhealthy consumption is.

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Discussing influencer consumer habits is fair game. Their “job” is to influence us to consume items they consume. The more views and reactions they get from us, the more they desire to keep this cycle of mass consumerism going.

And yeah, we are all guilty of it. The other day I almost texted my H SA for two more pairs of boots. Can I afford to buy more boots - yes. Do I like the boots? Sure. Except do I need more boots - no, I really don’t. 😂 then at Sephora I witnessed another instance of me almost grabbing some more hair care products I did not need (even tho I literally have two guest bathrooms “stocked” with goodies). The consumerism has really impacted our psyche and I don’t think there’s enough discourse around it.

I really miss the days when YouTubers did detailed honest reviews on bags, before short form content and click bait and all this nonsense. I understand from their perspective they must keep purchasing to get more views and clicks. How many would be purchasing if they couldn’t post? YouTube and TikTok in particular which reward content creators with cash per view create a system that really encourages mass consumption. Many of these influencers IMO are hopping on the influencers get rich quick off of H scheme, not genuine enthusiasts like us on TPF.

I have a great friend who always asks “how many people would be buying XYZ if they can’t post it on social media”?

On a related topic, Jerusha was on Amy and Kats live the other day discussing how emotionally draining being a luxury H influencer was and how much happier she is away. There’s always more than what meets the eye to these influencers and shopping habits.

 

[addiCCted]

Cute color. Not for me but it’s really pretty.

 

[Daydrmer]

I will state again none of this is that deep. And if someone finds themselves in this thread with 90% of their time spent being critical of the content, maybe this corner of the internet isn’t for them.

 

[chanellover333]

I will state again none of this is that deep. And if someone finds themselves in this thread with 90% of their time spent being critical of the content, maybe this corner of the internet isn’t for them.

If you don’t think it is that deep, then you aren’t the target for the message. This is a deeper question and discussion about consumer spending habits and norms influenced by “influencers”. If you can’t relate, that’s fine, but please do not discredit those of us who enjoy discussing the psychology behind the influencer industry. Some of as are more than just fans of designer items for the way they look and do think about things deeper than the average person.

 

[addiCCted]

Both sides are valid observations. While an advent calender from Hermes does seem like an obscene indulgence.
But then so does owning multiple mansions around the world, 250 ft yachts, million dollar watches etc etc

Of course a lot of influencers are faking it but I don’t doubt many really could easily afford that lifestyle.

So what is a multi gajillionaire woman to do for Christmas? A simple Hermes scarf doesn’t seem to quite cut it?

Plus also, who else would be scratching my itch to buy smth without me spending my own coin? 🤣.

 

[ladysarah]

If you don’t think it is that deep, then you aren’t the target for the message. This is a deeper question and discussion about consumer spending habits and norms influenced by “influencers”. If you can’t relate, that’s fine, but please do not discredit those of us who enjoy discussing the psychology behind the influencer industry. Some of as are more than just fans of designer items for the way they look and do think about things deeper than the average person.

This! Is there a reason why we cannot discuss this here. If you want to keep it light and fluffy that’s also possible- simply ignore the ‘deep’ stuff. I am very interested in the subject - rarely watch ´influencers ‘ but fascinated on their rise and rise and rise… we shall see if there is a fall.

 

[Daydrmer]

It doesn’t have to be light and fluffy all the time but certain posters spend ALL their time in this thread being negative and critiquing social media content around Hermes. I am just pointing out if one finds themselves in that position maybe their time is better spent elsewhere.

 

[Daydrmer]

If you don’t think it is that deep, then you aren’t the target for the message. This is a deeper question and discussion about consumer spending habits and norms influenced by “influencers”. If you can’t relate, that’s fine, but please do not discredit those of us who enjoy discussing the psychology behind the influencer industry. Some of as are more than just fans of designer items for the way they look and do think about things deeper than the average person.

That would be fine if that’s what the conversation is. But it isn’t. It’s a lot of assuming on others part that because people are indulging in lavish luxury spending they aren’t helping others, or donating or aren’t aware of the current world troubles. Literally anyone can come on this forum, see the spending habits of us here and say the same. What we post here is just a tiny snapshot of our lives. Just like many others posting on social media.

 

[saugalady]

One thing to note about this advent calendar, Hermès has enough métiers for the items to vary widely. The 24 items span across shoes, belts, perfumes, home goods, bags, clothing, scarves etc. As lovers of the brand, we actually may have bought 24 or more items in a single year also; so no judgment of this person IMO

 

[xceleritas]

Full disclosure, I’ve only watched this one video and haven’t seen this duo’s other videos. They made me chuckle a few times because of their stories and the dynamic between the two. Just a warning, it is a long video.

Definitely long but a fun video. Sounds like they've developed a friendly sassy dynamic with their SA and it's worked to their advantage. They also sound like a supportive friend group that shops well together

 

[OnlyModa]

I am getting fed up with these people.

Is this true? I have such a hard time believing this

 

[SDC2003]

This is a follow on video after that epic hail video. It’s refreshing to see YouTubers just be honest when they overspend.

 

[Swanky]

Let’s step back from the drama please. If you don’t like a members posts, then add them to the Ignore User list if you’re not capable of scrolling and ignoring on your own.
Don’t attempt to manage what is, or is not, allowed to be felt or discussed here.

 

[SOF Dolls]

Exactly. Last time I said this on this forum I got attacked.

People need to recognize what social media has done to consumerism is dangerous. For our environment, our mental health, and the workforce making these items, etc. Hermes is not immune to these criticisms, obviously it is has less of an environmental footprint than say SheIn, but still. I always see the financial argument - well they’re just rich etc. Yeah many people including many of us on TPF can afford to spend significantly more than what we do and intentionally choose not to because we recognize what unhealthy consumption is.

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Discussing influencer consumer habits is fair game. Their “job” is to influence us to consume items they consume. The more views and reactions they get from us, the more they desire to keep this cycle of mass consumerism going.

And yeah, we are all guilty of it. The other day I almost texted my H SA for two more pairs of boots. Can I afford to buy more boots - yes. Do I like the boots? Sure. Except do I need more boots - no, I really don’t. 😂 then at Sephora I witnessed another instance of me almost grabbing some more hair care products I did not need (even tho I literally have two guest bathrooms “stocked” with goodies). The consumerism has really impacted our psyche and I don’t think there’s enough discourse around it.

I really miss the days when YouTubers did detailed honest reviews on bags, before short form content and click bait and all this nonsense. I understand from their perspective they must keep purchasing to get more views and clicks. How many would be purchasing if they couldn’t post? YouTube and TikTok in particular which reward content creators with cash per view create a system that really encourages mass consumption. Many of these influencers IMO are hopping on the influencers get rich quick off of H scheme, not genuine enthusiasts like us on TPF.

I have a great friend who always asks “how many people would be buying XYZ if they can’t post it on social media”?

On a related topic, Jerusha was on Amy and Kats live the other day discussing how emotionally draining being a luxury H influencer was and how much happier she is away. There’s always more than what meets the eye to these influencers and shopping habits.

Well said! If they couldn’t post it on social media, they wouldn’t spend themselves into debt.

I read an article of BOF the other day about it being dangerous when consumers didn’t have their heart in it anymore. And I wondered what if all the people, who have money in their hand and is being told NO by Hermès just took their money elsewhere, Who would be the one holding it up now. I get there’s long term customers who came and stayed for the quality, but what if all the No’s just threw up their hands and left. Stopped all the pre-spend, would the handful of influencers be able to keep it all going like it is now? I know they wouldn’t go out of business, etc, but how much would they lose?