Thank you so much for your reply! I know that is what I am thinking....or leaning towards. Plus I would worry less about losing the earrings vs a bracelet.
I have the silver Venetian bracelet I rarely take off - and another special handmade sterling sea glass bracelet from a family trip that is special.
So if I go route of earrings....I am deciding between platinum .38 total ct H/VS1 and .48 total ct I/VVS1. My pendant is .28 E/VVS1. I don't know I feel the need to match the color/clarity as the prices go up. But contemplating the larger pair but wondering also if worth the maybe $900 more. I could tell the slight difference in size in my ear.
Here is a picture of me with the .38 (so .19 each) in my ear with my pendant.
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I like the pendant and earring matched set a lot. It looks great on you.
On diamond 4Cs, this is 100% preference, and here are my thoughts.
First though, I need to frame my thoughts on diamonds to share where I am coming from as this will help understand my answer on which earring.
For me, I would not get anything I color. It is tinted yellow, and once you see it, which in time I think you will, you will never un-see it. Your pendant is an E, and you will definitely be able to see the difference one day, guarantee. Whether this will bother you or not is the question you have to ask yourself. Some people never see the color difference or care. For me, I do see color difference, and I would care.
Also, I color is not a typical color used for small diamonds in settings at Tiffany. Tiffany uses F-G-H color stones (mostly F-G) in their pre-set pieces that have diamonds, so if you ever get more Tiffany pieces with diamonds, you may feel the I color earring is a bit off.
On diamond clarity, for me, it's not necessary to get VVS1 clarity. You are paying a high premium for this clarity which you cannot see on the ear and certainly not at that diamond size.
All the above are my thoughts on diamond color/clarity which then circles back to you...
What would I do if I were you?
From the two earrings above, I would get the .38 cttw H/VS1. The size difference per stone is very small. The .38 cttw is .19 ct each, and each diamond is 3.7mm in diameter. The .48 cttw is .24 ct each, and each diamond is 3.9mm in diameter. It is a .2mm difference, and that is not enough to make a difference in my mind to trade off.
The deal breaker to me, as stated above, is the .48 cttw is an I color, a low color, yet the VVS1 clarity is an expensive clarity, especially for a diamond this small size. It's like you are paying a "premium" for clarity that you cannot see, but you are getting a "discount" on the low I color, which is something you can see and is an important factor (at least to me).
Whew... sorry for the long post, but I just wanted to share my thoughts for another point of view to help you decide.
Good luck to you! That matched set looks fabulous on you! I think earrings are the winner!