Not on this board, but another board I frequent, there are a lot of members, but really only a core of frequent posters. I belonged to this group for 2 years and left last year because of this particular poster (and then other things too). Well, I just recently came back and immediately, this same poster is rude. EVERYONE else says how friend this person is and this probably is true if you are on the "right side" of him/her... but if you ever go against he/she says, you are forever "attacked" in subtle ways. I'm trying to ignore it, but it hurts. Do I kill this person with kindness and hope it stops? Ignore this person (though they don't seem to ignore me) or do I just leave the forum and say it's not worth it. I've tried talking with this person before and was just attacked more... For what it's worth a LOT of other posters have commented to me in private email last year that they noticed I was being treated poorly and then LOTS of people said I was one of their favorite posters and always felt that I wrote thoughtful responses and just seemed to have a lot of useful info to share.... (I tend to research things a lot). But, obviously, I rub some people the wrong way, but why do people then just act like 3rd graders and attack whenever they see a chance? I hate it!! What do I do?