Hi, can I check with you how long is "a few years"?
I got my first SO after one year and only after one QB of a Kelly bag (k32). The second year, I was offered an SO for a constance and I said yes as well. Please do note that for my second SO offer, it was a surprise that it came so fast. I am not a super VIP but I am a regular client in MBS. I do buy H items every month but my spending is between 1k to 2k a month.
Your SA should be able to offer you a HSS (also called SO) by now.
I got my third SO , a Birkin30 last 2019. And for this fourth one, I was offered a mini Kelly SO. My SA and I have been together for 9 years. My first 3 years, I allowed him to guide me, but nowadays, I just go to the store to buy something that I know I will use or gift to family.
My SA is also sometimes funny, he would message me randomly but usually he has a schedule. And when I send him WA messages, it takes him days to reply back, even weeks, I felt for a time he was ghosting me.
But for QB bags, I don't ask at all. He does know that I deserve 2 bags a year.
I only buy homeware, and SLGs, and once a year watch. That is basically my profile.
Hope that helps.