That is a lot of money you already spent. Did you tell her any specific colour, size and leather combination you like? I still haven't been able to get a K but was offered B twice last year. I did not spent nearly as much as you before I bought a B last year. A lot of my H items were purchased in the States before our dollar got weak and my SA is fully aware of that. I am not into their RTW. I didn't buy fine jewelry except one bracelet. Maybe you need to have a chat with your SA to see what is going on? Could it be that they just didn't receive the ones with your specification? My SA did tell me that we can try for a K this year but no promises as the boutique doesn't get many Ks. She even mentioned I probably would need to wait till next year. Then again I am aiming for 28, I'd take a 32 if it's an awesome colour. So that might be part of the reason I am waiting extra long.
I'm not even "on the list". I had the b/k chat with her earlier this year and was told I need to buy more from non-leather department. she didn't even take down my preferences like she did with my other bags and wallets. I know she has many wealthy clients who would buy anything she asks them to buy in a the blink of an eye for an offer of b/k, but I'm not like that. I guess I'll just keep purchasing things I truly like, and hope for one day being offered b/k.