I would never file a lawsuit against them or any other company unless I got physically injured (where I come from, to be litigious, involve lawyers and the like is generally frowned upon), but if this lawsuit is out there, I would appreciate if its effect would lead to the review of their internal sales practices, more training and the like. They could hire McKinsey, Bain, Accenture to at least make the process somewhat more transparent. There are probably specialized consulting companies that work just on that.@Angiebbb, I don't think people are dismissing others' feelings, at least I hope not. The disappointment is real, the frustration is real; I have sympathy for those who've spent more money than they'd like on goods they wouldn't have purchased had they not felt that it would improve their chances to obtain an Hermes bag. But at some point they need to decide what to do with those feelings.
For a number of reasons, my own choice was to include shopping in the secondary market along with my boutique spending, and along with many other tPF posters I have recommended this option on several threads. It's not universally popular (not going there on this thread) but it is an option. I've also considered purchases from bespoke brands and may yet pursue that option. I've enjoyed my non-bag Hermes purchases, and haven't considered them in the context of looking for a bag (I nearly had a heart attack when I found out just how much I've spent over the years, not a lot for some but plenty for me). And I'd like to think that if I felt, on a consistent basis, that my SA was starting to push me to buy stuff in which she knows I have no interest, my visits to the boutique would be much less frequent (and I live out of town as it is). I'm always interested in seeing what else is going on at the boutique besides the things I'm already interested in, and when she shows me something I don't care for I'm not shy in telling her why it's a no-go. I would wish for everyone to have that same experience, but I don't think filing a lawsuit will help.
I wasn’t even allowed to change SAs in the same store or same city. It is crazy to me that I couldn’t even choose who to shop with.