Just reading through members issues with family members and Hermes or other luxury purchases made me think how lucky I am that all my cousins (I'm an only child ) dont give a damn about clothes luxury or fashion because they are all academics or retired academics or Lawyers..They dress really badly (borderline scruffy tbh) but I kind of love that they dont judge me or indeed care if I wear Valentino to a family get together or if it was something from a high st chain or jeans..They truly don't give a d***.
Because I work in fashion I find it really refreshing.
My sister in law however (DH's brothers wife) is very judgey and notices EVERYTHING..and comments " OH! you have a Burberry mac..thats very expensive.." things like that.
Her and her husband are not poor and own a second home in Italy and have a great lifestyle however she's always sniping about my 'expensive tastes' she once clocked my H bag and made the 'very expensive' comment..at which point I asked her how much their daughters school fees were..when she told me I pointed out that my bag cost less than 6 months school fees (considerably less in fact) and since we have no children through choice and I work full time my bags and clothes were what I worked to pay for and they gave me joy...
She has'nt made those comments since.
Because I work in fashion I find it really refreshing.
My sister in law however (DH's brothers wife) is very judgey and notices EVERYTHING..and comments " OH! you have a Burberry mac..thats very expensive.." things like that.
Her and her husband are not poor and own a second home in Italy and have a great lifestyle however she's always sniping about my 'expensive tastes' she once clocked my H bag and made the 'very expensive' comment..at which point I asked her how much their daughters school fees were..when she told me I pointed out that my bag cost less than 6 months school fees (considerably less in fact) and since we have no children through choice and I work full time my bags and clothes were what I worked to pay for and they gave me joy...
She has'nt made those comments since.
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