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Thank you for the suggestions.
What are some reputable resellers?
I have never purchased form resellers but that is just me. Some of my friends do and many on this board as well. From forum posts I've seen mentioned Fashionphile, TheRealReal, 1stDibs and others. I think some of them also have brick mortar stores which is good to inspect the bags. Please do comprehensive research and due diligence, especially authentication. Search posts/threads on this forum. Good luck.
 
see DM. I gave you a few tips on how to talk with the Hermes SA which I don’t want to paste in the open forum because sometimes Hermes SAs roam here.
Hello! I’m fairly new to this forum and I’ve started getting designers bag a 2-3 years ago. And now I want to build a ground for getting Kelly one day. I cannot afford it right know but hopefully in 1-2 years. So I’ve been researching on how to get started building relationship with SA. But I’d really appreciate if you can share some tips in PM. I read that some people pre spend almost double of price of K or B and still haven’t been offered one. Thank you in advance! I made a first Hermes purchase at store a month ago. And I got a number of SA. But I don’t really know how to build relationship with her but not being pushy or annoying. I’m kinda socially awkward and also I live 4 hours drive from closest H store. So I cannot stop by casually at store every month or so.
 
Hello! I’m fairly new to this forum and I’ve started getting designers bag a 2-3 years ago. And now I want to build a ground for getting Kelly one day. I cannot afford it right know but hopefully in 1-2 years. So I’ve been researching on how to get started building relationship with SA. But I’d really appreciate if you can share some tips in PM. I read that some people pre spend almost double of price of K or B and still haven’t been offered one. Thank you in advance! I made a first Hermes purchase at store a month ago. And I got a number of SA. But I don’t really know how to build relationship with her but not being pushy or annoying. I’m kinda socially awkward and also I live 4 hours drive from closest H store. So I cannot stop by casually at store every month or so.
The other route that I won’t mind saying openly is …asking a VIC friend (aka big spender in Hermes who is a known face to the SAs in store). That’s how I got my first bag without pre spending.

Second QB was at the height of the stock market crash and pandemic when people were busy liquidating stock and not buying much.

I don’t buy luxury goods when the economy is going great (I save during that period of time) but I buy when the economy just dives rock bottom and not many are spending.

I only contact my SA with the product reference number when I want to buy something (usually non-leather) . Once it is in stock, my SA calls up and I go down to the store to buy. That’s how it works for me and Hermes. Easier on the SA too since it is an easy sale and I never ask for QBs. Most get asked funny questions about pre spends and what’s not (from overhearing other clients in store) and it’s uncomfortable to refuse a client. So best not to ask until you have the cash in hand ( since you mention affordability) to splurge on a QB.
 
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I thought $18,000 at this point would have at least allowed me to keep buying SLG’s and small bags, b
There is simply not enough supply of QB, or even the popular non QB that you favor. whether you get a QB offer is not up to your SA, but your SM, and there are many other shoppers with more robots profiles in other areas like RTW and home,
US, I assume? The bags sell themselves so I wouldn’t really include them in your mental prespend calculation, especially the Evelyne TPMs which can be seen as a “favor bag” on their own. I’m not sure which store you shop or which bags you are requesting but ~$10k non bag prespend unfortunately isn’t very competitive these days. Also, the repeat items ( multiple TPMs, multiple hats, etc) can be suspected as reseller behavior.
I exclude all leather like bags; SLG; charms from my rough calculation of prespend bc of the sheer amount of increased demand and reduced supply post Covid. This reduction in supply is artificial, but I believe it is orchestrated by H headquarters in Paris and is a world wide trend. (Not your SA’s fault) The purpose is to get clients into the boutique in person to buy ‘consolation’ merchandise. That’s fine if you love the other departments, like RTW and home. If you do not, I personally think it is cheaper and easier to buy authenticated reseller. I have a prespend of 5X plus excluding leather, and I buy both boutique and vintage reseller (barenia, box etc)
What I meant by favor bag was that it’s an item that sells itself and the SA might feel like they are doing you a favor by offering it to you. Some bags are harder to sell than others so some use up a portion of your SAs good will to be offered and thus could make your SA feel like “damn, ive already offered her X Y and Z but she still wants A, how ungrateful”. Anyway, I think your SA was being very upfront with you by hinting that if you want whatever quota bag, she needs you to expand your profile in order to be competitive. I’d either follow her advice (despite it perhaps being inconvenient) or adjust my expectations accordingly.
Charms and some SLG also fall into this category. So do some other popular items like black chypre sandals. my SA joked with me that he should get credit for getting my DH a pair lol
he idea of pleasing others just to please isn't exactly appealing to me, nor is the idea of spending a lot of money in categories that I don't like very appealing.
Agree with you. Only buy what you love. You are in control of your own wallet. However, your prespend as listed (even though prespend is not set into stone in the US, doesn’t entitle you to any QB or non QB offer. It is what it is. If a cleint doesn’t like other H categories, I do not recommend boutique shopping. I don’t believe in buying anything just bc of prespend to get a bag.
Buy what you like only and at your budget and your pace
This exactly. I disagree with posters who say that this is outrageous or some game. Perhaps consider that your SA would like to offer more clients bags. An SA can only offer bags that she is authorized by her SM, and she has to persuade her SM to approve you over many others who may not have gotten the other bags or charms that you were able to purchase. JMO of course, and YMMV

ETA: my SA knows I post here out of fun and entertainment, but he says if we think H SAs lurk here when they cannot keep up with their personal text and email requests and are exhausted from saying no to demanding clients all the time, we have no idea lol
 
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I refused a popular bag charm and told my SA that I wasn’t into it. Told my SA to keep it for a client who really likes those. Instead, I went my own way and got my sandals plus bracelet. That is how I roll. I don’t necessarily buy everything recommended, only things I like and see.

It is ok to pass on things you don’t like - anything Hermes sell ain’t cheap trinkets, so you must be happy to own them.
 
Anyone know if buying items online because there’s no stock in-store hurts one’s chances of getting offered a QB?
Am buying quite a few accessories — shawls, belts, makeup etc — because I just moved to NY and have nothing to wear and work about 60ish hrs a week so it’s just easier to shop online rather than deal with the lack of inventory.

I would really love a neutral K28 or K25 with GHW (yes, I’ll take a number haha!), but the only things I buy at the boutique are shoes, casual bags like the Pico etc that I prefer trying on before buying.

Current in store spend this year is low, probably around 0.8:1 including a Pico18 I got a few weeks ago, so wondering if I should just go preloved route via TRR or Rebag for the bag of my dreams…
 
Anyone know if buying items online because there’s no stock in-store hurts one’s chances of getting offered a QB?
Am buying quite a few accessories — shawls, belts, makeup etc — because I just moved to NY and have nothing to wear and work about 60ish hrs a week so it’s just easier to shop online rather than deal with the lack of inventory.

I would really love a neutral K28 or K25 with GHW (yes, I’ll take a number haha!), but the only things I buy at the boutique are shoes, casual bags like the Pico etc that I prefer trying on before buying.

Current in store spend this year is low, probably around 0.8:1 including a Pico18 I got a few weeks ago, so wondering if I should just go preloved route via TRR or Rebag for the bag of my dreams…
It def doesn’t help and in my experience hurts. For best in store results/offers, don’t shop online.
 
Anyone know if buying items online because there’s no stock in-store hurts one’s chances of getting offered a QB?
Am buying quite a few accessories — shawls, belts, makeup etc — because I just moved to NY and have nothing to wear and work about 60ish hrs a week so it’s just easier to shop online rather than deal with the lack of inventory.

I would really love a neutral K28 or K25 with GHW (yes, I’ll take a number haha!), but the only things I buy at the boutique are shoes, casual bags like the Pico etc that I prefer trying on before buying.

Current in store spend this year is low, probably around 0.8:1 including a Pico18 I got a few weeks ago, so wondering if I should just go preloved route via TRR or Rebag for the bag of my dreams…
1. If you fear for your QB offer, give the SA the inventory codes and they will put on hold once the goods come in store (caveat: IF the goods EVER COMES IN STORE).

2. I don’t think leather goods, especially non Quota bags, count towards pre-spend from what many have posted.

3. Luck - if not a big spender (as in dropping 60k USD in one shopping experience), may get you an offer.

4. Neutral colours - too popular…again luck is needed.
 
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1. If you fear for your QB offer, give the SA the inventory codes and they will put on hold once the goods come in store (caveat: IF the goods EVER COMES IN STORE).

2. I don’t think leather goods, especially non Quota bags, count towards pre-spend from what many have posted.

3. Luck - if not a big spender (as in dropping 60k USD in one shopping experience), may get you an offer.

4. Neutral colours - too popular…again luck is needed.
Thank you!

One thing I noticed about H fans is really how amazingly generous, supportive and genuinely happy for others everyone is. Such a lovely community ❤️
 
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