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I actually changed seats on the subway last week because the woman who took the seat beside me was wearing a perfume that made me gag. I stayed where I was for a few minutes, but she kept waving her arms about, and a fresh wave hit me every few seconds. The stop after I moved, the train filled up with passengers and I breathed a huge sigh of relief that I wasn't trapped in her miasma.

I'm not usually sensitive to perfumes, but I do have a strong sense of smell. Something was off woth that particular perfume on her skin.

I would have trouble to stay at work if a colleagues perfume bottle broke that day. [emoji1]
 
Is it true that organic bars are actually healthier and better than the body wash we use? They said the body wash has a lot more chemicals added than simple soap bars?

It is true that most soaps and body products have many added chemicals, some are hormone-disrupters that have some health risk. This is true whether they are bars or liquids. The ones with the moisturizing beads are the worst, and they are also extremely toxic to tiny life in the ocean because the itty bitty plastic particles are small enough to pass through cleaning filters.
Organic, all-natural or craftsman-made/home-made are probably the safest choices, but it will probably not give you the best skin.
I personally eat very healthy, natural food, get good exercise and avoid smoke, but I bathe in chemicals and slather them on my face...so I hope that it balances out!
I also use the neutrogena rain bath! I actually hate it (to me it smells incredibly strong, especially the "yellow" flavor). My husband refuses to check our closets before he buys more of things that he likes, therefore we always have 8-10 rain bath containers (and 8-10 refills of peppercorns, 8-10 jars of hot sauce...) but somehow I always end up having to use "yellow"! [emoji43]
 
In some countries (more than one) wearing deodorant is not considered a standard practice, with obvious consequences...sigh.
It is not just a question of where people come from, though. I have a person in my staff (an american man) whose smell is unbearable. Apparently if I mentioned something, it would be considered harassment (or so tells me my HR department). When I have to meet with him I keep my meetings short and possibly not in my office, since I cannot open the windows.
Yet, another woman is allowed to tell one of my very stylish and well put together staff not to wear perfume because she finds it offensive.

I am always puzzled by these rules.
I hate that BO smell, but I have a male colleague who reeks of baby powder. I guess it's his deodorant but it makes me gag. I'd rather smell whatever he smells like naturally!
 
Thank you Karen. The food turned out to be the best part actually. Weather was ok but not the best. Lots of cocktails and parties every night. I think I prefer club med that's next to the sea rather than a river. The mosquitos almost killed me. I ended up using the spray four times a day and still I got a dozen itchy-to-death bumps at the end of the trip. Magically the kids didn't get any. Either I smelt too good or I was totally stinky that they liked it. [emoji23]

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I would prefer the ocean totally! The bugs can be a problem! Once I start scratching, it is difficult to stop. I'm sure they bit because you smelled good! Fortunately, your children were spared
 
It is true that most soaps and body products have many added chemicals, some are hormone-disrupters that have some health risk. This is true whether they are bars or liquids. The ones with the moisturizing beads are the worst, and they are also extremely toxic to tiny life in the ocean because the itty bitty plastic particles are small enough to pass through cleaning filters.
Organic, all-natural or craftsman-made/home-made are probably the safest choices, but it will probably not give you the best skin.
I personally eat very healthy, natural food, get good exercise and avoid smoke, but I bathe in chemicals and slather them on my face...so I hope that it balances out!
I also use the neutrogena rain bath! I actually hate it (to me it smells incredibly strong, especially the "yellow" flavor). My husband refuses to check our closets before he buys more of things that he likes, therefore we always have 8-10 rain bath containers (and 8-10 refills of peppercorns, 8-10 jars of hot sauce...) but somehow I always end up having to use "yellow"! [emoji43]

Thanks for the information.
Ive been buying a lot of my body washes at Whole Foods lately, hoping they choose environmentally conscious.
I did buy a cream drugstore brand thinking it would moisturize my dry skin (it did not). The one with the beads really annoyed me.
 
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I hate that BO smell, but I have a male colleague who reeks of baby powder. I guess it's his deodorant but it makes me gag. I'd rather smell whatever he smells like naturally!

Earlier this morning a friend & I saw a man we knew while we were walking. He had a towel around his neck after his run. He told us he didn't want to smell offensive when walked back into the a/c. I never realized a moderate change in temperature releases body odors.
First thing I thought was "telepathy" after reading & participating last night on this thread. Second thought was to appreciate his consideration!
 
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Has the culture become more Westernized -- showering, hand sanitizer, deodorant, using paper towels to open doors when leaving a public lavatory?
A decade ago someone told me she'd been to France and there were no Westernized johns at Versailles. I think she was pulling my leg. The facility design sounded very rustic.

There is a business in Paris that DH and I know very well. They went through a full renovation a couple of years ago, including new bathrooms. They are a huge improvement from the old bathroom, which were probably from the 60s and very dingy.
DH commented that, in spite of being 2 years old, the sinks in the men's bathrooms are spotless because "they are hardly used. The French guys don't appear to ever wash their hands". YUUUCK.
 
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Fragrances never had a negative effect on me till recently. They can be overwhelming, even some I spray on myself. The only way I get it off my skin is to shower.

Changes in hormones levels change the sense of smell, and even what smells we like or we don't like.
there are some smells that I loved when I was younger and now I can barely stand.

Of course, too much of anything is bad, even the best perfume in the world, but I find difficult to think that a little perfume may be offensive. As a rule of thumb, perfume should not be detectable at more than 30cm, or 1', of distance, which is pretty much the definition of personal space.
 
For those who asked, I put my recent paris purchases in the 2016 scarves thread.
I was really looking for the black version of the carre en boucle GSGM, but I saw the last one in FSH bought under my nose. I must say, the lady who purchased was beautiful and elegant, which made me feel a little less sad about seeing it go, at least it will have a good life :)

I was looking for Au Coin du Feu, in the Christmas-y blue/red version, with the quad-contrast hem. The super nice SA in FSH told me that they "did not order it". I didn't even think it was possible for FSH "not to order" something, but she told me they had it in Sevres, so I went there to buy it.

The scarf I did not expect to purchase was the Hermes Electrique 04 (blue/prune/rouge). I was looking for a subdued blue/neutral carre', but after trying La legende de l'arbre and Chemins de corail, and realizing that the petrol color didn't really help me, the SA brought this one up, and it was love at first sight. It is such a happy scarf!
As most of loves at first sight, I am not sure it was a wise choice, but at least I know what scarf to use when I need some pick-me-up.
Uh, wait, would that be a scarf fling? I don't want to know :biggrin:

Last, but not least, I tried all the dallet, which really didn't help me. I also tried the red version of ClF, but DH voted it down because he didn't like the finesse design.
Soooo...I found my bonehur, as they say it in Paris
I posted the pictures here, so I won't repost:
http://forum.purseblog.com/threads/the-fall-2016-scarves.939230/page-284#post-30746387

I absolutely love this scarf, it is neutral but it has enough dark blue not to wash me out. I'm very very happy about this purchase!
 
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There is a business in Paris that DH and I know very well. They went through a full renovation a couple of years ago, including new bathrooms. They are a huge improvement from the old bathroom, which were probably from the 60s and very dingy.
DH commented that, in spite of being 2 years old, the sinks in the men's bathrooms are spotless because "they are hardly used. The French guys don't appear to ever wash their hands". YUUUCK.

Omg. Didn't need to know that. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
 
Getting back to make-up and skin care..... I do not buy into all the claims that the various companies make about changing your skin, turning back the clock, erasing lines/furrows or you name it. I think it is all hogwash and they are just separating women from their $$$. These products just sit on top of the dermis and can't possibly change things from the inside to the outside. .Many drug store products do just as good a job as a $200 jar of cream. I have been using Neutrogena products for years. The face washes, day and night creams and they work as well as anything. For day, I mostly use Bobbi Brown moisturizer and eye cream. I think that properly removing/cleansing your make-up is most important and not using water that is too hot. My 2 cents.
 
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