Just wanted to do an open discussion on people who are dealing with unrealistic leaders or bad management...
I've had some situations since my new manager started. I work in project management and I'm use to being flexible. But I feel as though I am on the brink of being fired/let go because of the insecurity of my boss. I know when to pick my battles and when to bite my tongue, but he's so unprofessional that every time I do I feel like he's going to respond "oh, you don't agree? Well it's my house my rules. So here are your papers, good bye!". I'm already full on looking, but I'm afraid I won't find something before he pulls the plug on me. My colleagues (who are also looking) and old bosses tell me that I shouldn't worry about getting fired from a "nut job", but it still doesn't sit well with me because I work so hard.
Here are some of the things he does are that are unacceptable:
- He books meetings with us and doesn't show up. Then he comes and finds us hours later and we're all busy either presenting to clients or going to meetings and he sends out condescending emails and threats stating that these meetings are a must-attend and that it is completely unacceptable for us to not take these meetings... Uhm? We were waiting on stand by for him for an hour and nothing. I think us working is more important than us going to a meeting that he called and didn't show up to.
- He makes inappropriate jokes about females. He's not even old! He would make comments like "well, you're a women you should ____" or "see, you women always complicate things" or things along those lines. He once told me he thinks I should get "knocked up" already. ??? (I'm in my 20's and... NO!)
- If he doesn't want to hear what you're saying he will call you a liar. Even though you provide proof and facts to back up your statement.
Has anyone been in this situation? I've never been let go of anything before and I feel terrible. I know that he is not professional, but even though he's not, I feel that getting let go (even by him) is a bad thing... I just hope that I find something before he decides to go on another rampage.
I've had some situations since my new manager started. I work in project management and I'm use to being flexible. But I feel as though I am on the brink of being fired/let go because of the insecurity of my boss. I know when to pick my battles and when to bite my tongue, but he's so unprofessional that every time I do I feel like he's going to respond "oh, you don't agree? Well it's my house my rules. So here are your papers, good bye!". I'm already full on looking, but I'm afraid I won't find something before he pulls the plug on me. My colleagues (who are also looking) and old bosses tell me that I shouldn't worry about getting fired from a "nut job", but it still doesn't sit well with me because I work so hard.
Here are some of the things he does are that are unacceptable:
- He books meetings with us and doesn't show up. Then he comes and finds us hours later and we're all busy either presenting to clients or going to meetings and he sends out condescending emails and threats stating that these meetings are a must-attend and that it is completely unacceptable for us to not take these meetings... Uhm? We were waiting on stand by for him for an hour and nothing. I think us working is more important than us going to a meeting that he called and didn't show up to.
- He makes inappropriate jokes about females. He's not even old! He would make comments like "well, you're a women you should ____" or "see, you women always complicate things" or things along those lines. He once told me he thinks I should get "knocked up" already. ??? (I'm in my 20's and... NO!)
- If he doesn't want to hear what you're saying he will call you a liar. Even though you provide proof and facts to back up your statement.
Has anyone been in this situation? I've never been let go of anything before and I feel terrible. I know that he is not professional, but even though he's not, I feel that getting let go (even by him) is a bad thing... I just hope that I find something before he decides to go on another rampage.
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