Sorry if you felt it was rude -- that wasn't the spirit in which I posted. If the original poster wanted sympathy, I would have been happy to offer just that. I know college can be tough -- I've obviously been there, too! However, I thought what she wanted were opinions.
I think there are many different venues for pursuing something you love... via graduate programs, internships, fellowships, careers. I don't think anyone can deny that the most logical course of action is to leave undergrad in a timely manner to pursue one of the aforementioned: graduate programs, internships, fellowships, careers.
Again, not my intention to be rude. And frankly, EmilyK, an interesting point from someone such as yourself. Just as you're free to share your opinions, I am free to share mine and I don't believe I've done so in a demeaning manner.