Not too late at all — I’m thinking of buying this bag for my birthday in May, so I have time to think about it! That’s good to know about the handle. Thanks for writing back!
Much welcome. To speed up the stretching/softening, I recommend putting heavy things inside for the first few weeks - I did not do this on purpose, but I carried my laptop inside my Atlantic Garda for the first few weeks and it really speed up the softening/stretching! It is so smoosh by now!