Friends Chat Thread: Wardrobe, Fun, and Whatever

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Me too, gracekelly. I own 5 denim jackets (not including my denim vests) that come to mind, in different washes, fits, embroidered, etc. I wear them often. Random side note, but did you know that when I type in gracekelly, my autocorrect changes it to gracefully? :smile::heart:
How funny about the auto correct :lol: I have a white cotton light weight denim too that I have used for travel and everything else in summer when I just need a jacket to throw on at a casual outdoor concert. This is another discount special that I picked up a few years ago in Florida. I had misjudged the weather (it was cold) and had to go to Steinmart to pick up something for my mom and found the jacket too. I literally cut the price tag off in the car and wore it ASAP! Another $30 purchase! I have washed it several times and it still looks brand new.
 
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@cafecreme15 Yes, I have come across Respoke via Instagram. I just didn't know how I would feel about silk for shoes and hence just chalked it up to H eye candy. Please share pics here when it shows up on NYT! ;)
I was concerned about the silk as well, but I figured I wouldn’t wear regular canvas espadrilles in the rain, so really there was no difference for silk!
@gracekelly Thanks for mentioning Loehmanns. Used to go to the one in DC in Friendship Heights. Good memories! :tender:

I remember Loehmanns, GK! And I too LOVE your denim/fur/silk combo, looks fabulous! Cafe, those shoes are adorable, but I really [emoji177] the hot pink ones. [emoji57]

DH was supposed to take the boys to Jamaica on Thursday morning, but by the time we got to Tuesday he and I were worried about the trip happening because of the storm. Fortunately, they got down to Miami Tuesday night and over to Jamaica on Wednesday (and thank goodness because the Thursday flight got cancelled).

So I have had a guy-free house this week. You'd think I'd be posting more here, but my mom has been living with us for two years and I actually never get to spend time with her. While I'm running with Jack she runs with Luke (DS2) and then when I'm home I'm either hanging with Luke or doing something with DH. So we have been spending some really nice time together - mostly catching her up on "This Is Us" (we were snowed in) but also some dining out and shopping and Luke's parent-teacher conference (whew, MUCH better than the last one! [emoji28]). I have also had some time to hang out with my 'dangerous' best friend, too. In the meantime DH taught the boys to scuba dive and apparently they have both really taken to it (thank goodness, I don't even like the deep end of the pool). So not much TPF for me.

Now that it's spring I need to change my skin routine. I prefer La Mer for winter. Just bought some Dr Gross products but not convinced. I need a REALLY good eye cream, too.

By the way, I am in LOVE with the Marajo hair products (Sephora), especially the pre-blow dry serum. No more frizz, no more Jewfro!!!! (Yes, that's a thing.) my hair is not weighed down either, it's just right.

So clever and so pretty! BaC design was around in 2007, I think it looks it looks great as shoes.

I also have to say if you resisted those pic NG shoes your are a stronger woma than me, they look totally fabulous on you
Thanks BBC and PT!! I loved the pink ones too. Luckily (or more accurately, unluckily) they were WAY out of my budget for a single pair of shoes at 2k [emoji25] so there was no possibility of me taking them home. These are for when I’m at the stage of my career in 15 years where I can wear whatever the heck I want and get away with it!

BBC, so glad your DH and kids made it to Jamaica! Sounds like they’re having a lovely boys trip, and how great that you are getting some downtime with your mom. The pace of life can really get in the way of enjoying time with loved ones, even those we are physically with every day.
A quick fly by - @Dextersmom - gorgeous mini - I love that colour and it suits you beautifully

Cafe - love the espadrilles but those pink NGs are TDF. Btw, the brand Respoke is founded/faced by the guy who wrote Bringing home the Birkin.

I picked up some tulips at the farmers market yesterday and they look so pretty in the sunshine at bfs place...Spring is here, warmer weather will be here soon and good things are anticipated....

Happy Sunday!!
How interesting about Respoke! And stunning tulips; I just love tulips, even though they don’t last very long. They’re such happy flowers!
Another non denim owner here
Totally understand

TT and Nicole, can I ask what your casual clothes are on a day to day basis if you don’t wear denim? I’m sick of denim as my go-to bottoms, but I haven’t the faintest idea what else to wear if I don’t want to do a more work-like trouser or tights/skirt. This problem plagues me for months throughout fall and winter.
 
I picked up this flower power brooch today and I am very happy with it. I have been collecting brooches the last couple of years and have a very small collection (this one makes 6). I usually pin them on a sweater or like @gracekelly, on one of my denim jackets. I pinned this one on the sweater I am wearing today so that I could show you. :heart:
 

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I picked up this flower power brooch today and I am very happy with it. I have been collecting brooches the last couple of years and have a very small collection (this one makes 6). I usually pin them on a sweater or like @gracekelly, on one of my denim jackets. I pinned this one on the sweater I am wearing today so that I could show you. :heart:

I love it! I actually have an enamel necklace from about 8-9 years ago just like this - black interlocking C’s with a white camellia on the end.
 
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Thanks BBC and PT!! I loved the pink ones too. Luckily (or more accurately, unluckily) they were WAY out of my budget for a single pair of shoes at 2k [emoji25] so there was no possibility of me taking them home. These are for when I’m at the stage of my career in 15 years where I can wear whatever the heck I want and get away with it!

BBC, so glad your DH and kids made it to Jamaica! Sounds like they’re having a lovely boys trip, and how great that you are getting some downtime with your mom. The pace of life can really get in the way of enjoying time with loved ones, even those we are physically with every day.

How interesting about Respoke! And stunning tulips; I just love tulips, even though they don’t last very long. They’re such happy flowers!


TT and Nicole, can I ask what your casual clothes are on a day to day basis if you don’t wear denim? I’m sick of denim as my go-to bottoms, but I haven’t the faintest idea what else to wear if I don’t want to do a more work-like trouser or tights/skirt. This problem plagues me for months throughout fall and winter.
One more non-denim-owner. I have not always been so, but when the trend shifted to higher waisted, I didn’t bother to update as I don’t like my tummy feeling constricted. I wear casual trousers, leggings, casual skirts and dresses.
 
I picked up this flower power brooch today and I am very happy with it. I have been collecting brooches the last couple of years and have a very small collection (this one makes 6). I usually pin them on a sweater or like @gracekelly, on one of my denim jackets. I pinned this one on the sweater I am wearing today so that I could show you. :heart:
How pretty! I actually prefer to wear a CC pin on non Chanel. When I put one on a Chanel jacket I felt like it is too much branding. This is my hang up and I should get over it because 99% of the time I don’t think that the people I am with have any clue about the clothes.
 
How pretty! I actually prefer to wear a CC pin on non Chanel. When I put one on a Chanel jacket I felt like it is too much branding. This is my hang up and I should get over it because 99% of the time I don’t think that the people I am with have any clue about the clothes.
Thank you gracekelly. I started acquiring Chanel around 3 years ago and stick to their handbags, shoes and brooches. I admire you ladies with your beautiful and elegant Chanel jackets and skirts, but they don't fit with my current lifestyle at all. I live in a beach community (which is pretty casual) and work as a therapist for a school district, providing counseling for student's with significant social/emotional needs. So my profession is also very casual, and I can pretty much wear whatever I want. My go to outfit typically consists of jeans and a tank with a colorful kimono/sweater or a tank and skirt with a denim jacket. I have always loved handbags, shoes and jewelry, however, and like you mentioned, most people that I interact with on a daily basis have no idea about the brands I carry/wear. :heart:
 
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A quick fly by - @Dextersmom - gorgeous mini - I love that colour and it suits you beautifully

Cafe - love the espadrilles but those pink NGs are TDF. Btw, the brand Respoke is founded/faced by the guy who wrote Bringing home the Birkin.

I picked up some tulips at the farmers market yesterday and they look so pretty in the sunshine at bfs place...Spring is here, warmer weather will be here soon and good things are anticipated....

Happy Sunday!!

So beautiful, thank you, happy Sunday (and Monday) to you XXX
 
Thanks BBC and PT!! I loved the pink ones too. Luckily (or more accurately, unluckily) they were WAY out of my budget for a single pair of shoes at 2k [emoji25] so there was no possibility of me taking them home. These are for when I’m at the stage of my career in 15 years where I can wear whatever the heck I want and get away with it!

BBC, so glad your DH and kids made it to Jamaica! Sounds like they’re having a lovely boys trip, and how great that you are getting some downtime with your mom. The pace of life can really get in the way of enjoying time with loved ones, even those we are physically with every day.

How interesting about Respoke! And stunning tulips; I just love tulips, even though they don’t last very long. They’re such happy flowers!


TT and Nicole, can I ask what your casual clothes are on a day to day basis if you don’t wear denim? I’m sick of denim as my go-to bottoms, but I haven’t the faintest idea what else to wear if I don’t want to do a more work-like trouser or tights/skirt. This problem plagues me for months throughout fall and winter.

Thanks so much, Cafe! After they got home yesterday, I learned all about how dangerous scuba diving in open water can be. So glad I didn't know beforehand! [emoji51] Of course, the boys loved it.

I don't wear jeans either. I do own a few pairs, but maybe only wear a few times a year, what I do on casual days is wear a variety of dresses that can be worn a variety of ways and will work dressed up or down.

My go-to for winter is a two-layer set by Derek Lam 10 Crosby. The bottom layer is a light silk sleeveless shift with an asymmetrical two-tiered vertically pleated hem. On top of it is a short sleeved hip length pieces with frayed edges that feels like a thin sweatshirt. This is comfy, warm enough under a coat, dress-up or -down and day-to-night.

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I also have three of the Ellen dress by Otte. I wear the black one the most. Also dress up-or-down, day-to-night.

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Article on styling it:
https://adashofdetails.com/ellen-dress-two-ways/

I also love slip dresses and depending on length and material can wear for three seasons here.
 
I picked up this flower power brooch today and I am very happy with it. I have been collecting brooches the last couple of years and have a very small collection (this one makes 6). I usually pin them on a sweater or like @gracekelly, on one of my denim jackets. I pinned this one on the sweater I am wearing today so that I could show you. :heart:
Love the brooch!!! I love how you've paired it with a casual cardigan!

I'd love to wear mine like that but I'm totally afraid it might create big holes. :(
 
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Love the brooch!!! I love how you've paired it with a casual cardigan!

I'd love to wear mine like that but I'm totally afraid it might create big holes. :sad:
Thank you and I know exactly what you mean. When I got my first brooch a couple of years ago, I was afraid to pin it on things for the same reason. When I found the nerve and started using it, though, it got easier. I do mostly pin them on sweaters or denim jackets, so I haven't had any holes at all, as of yet. :heart:
 
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Thanks so much, Cafe! After they got home yesterday, I learned all about how dangerous scuba diving in open water can be. So glad I didn't know beforehand! [emoji51] Of course, the boys loved it.

I don't wear jeans either. I do own a few pairs, but maybe only wear a few times a year, what I do on casual days is wear a variety of dresses that can be worn a variety of ways and will work dressed up or down.

My go-to for winter is a two-layer set by Derek Lam 10 Crosby. The bottom layer is a light silk sleeveless shift with an asymmetrical two-tiered vertically pleated hem. On top of it is a short sleeved hip length pieces with frayed edges that feels like a thin sweatshirt. This is comfy, warm enough under a coat, dress-up or -down and day-to-night.

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I also have three of the Ellen dress by Otte. I wear the black one the most. Also dress up-or-down, day-to-night.

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Article on styling it:
https://adashofdetails.com/ellen-dress-two-ways/

I also love slip dresses and depending on length and material can wear for three seasons here.
The less we know the better sometimes! [emoji28] it would seem I have to get used to the idea of wearing tights more often in the winter if I want to move away from jeans. The problem is now I do a fair bit of walking outside and they’re not nearly as warm as jeans/trousers. But this is will be perfect for when I am more sedentary in an office. I love the layered number!
Oh my [emoji85]
 
The less we know the better sometimes! [emoji28] it would seem I have to get used to the idea of wearing tights more often in the winter if I want to move away from jeans. The problem is now I do a fair bit of walking outside and they’re not nearly as warm as jeans/trousers. But this is will be perfect for when I am more sedentary in an office. I love the layered number!

Oh my [emoji85]

I dont think that jeans are all that warm in winter. Actually a long skirt is generally warmer to me than jeans. If you get a decent pair of tights (like wolford) - they make wool blends and cashmere blends - your legs will be fine, and you can even do OTK boots on top.
 
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