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Was happily on the way to Paris on Eurostar when the train stopped and the conductor announced that there’s been an accident on the tracks ahead. I will now be sitting on the train for 2-3 hours not moving *major facepalm*. Trying to now revise my itinerary in my head to account for having a massive part of my day ruined. Optimistically I will hopefully have 5 hours there before I have to turn back around to London.
 
Ok, who wants to see my window shopping results?
The store was not busy when I got there so I had a chance to chat w an SA

BV convertible (definitely out now)
Halzan mini and med and GP 30 in canvas
Pico 22
Celine mini, Mini Bolide, DS small (exotic!)

To reconfirm that I don’t enjoy black bags - I would get colour.

Bolide and the Pico look the best on you. I think you need an all-leather GP to try on and I think the 22 Pico looks perfect.
 
Was happily on the way to Paris on Eurostar when the train stopped and the conductor announced that there’s been an accident on the tracks ahead. I will now be sitting on the train for 2-3 hours not moving *major facepalm*. Trying to now revise my itinerary in my head to account for having a massive part of my day ruined. Optimistically I will hopefully have 5 hours there before I have to turn back around to London.

Annoying but from what I hear quite a regular occurrence. I experienced 8 accidents (or 'accidents') on British trains and on the Underground last year. One train left the route completely at break-neck speed without warning or further announcement and delivered us to a place I'd never heard of because someone was walking the tracks. The whole thing cost me 2 hours, but the feeling of bewilderment and panic was worse.

You will have a wonderful time in Paris to make up for it I'm sure.
 
Annoying but from what I hear quite a regular occurrence. I experienced 8 accidents (or 'accidents') on British trains and on the Underground last year. One train left the route completely at break-neck speed without warning or further announcement and delivered us to a place I'd never heard of because someone was walking the tracks. The whole thing cost me 2 hours, but the feeling of bewilderment and panic was worse.

You will have a wonderful time in Paris to make up for it I'm sure.

Yes, I’m getting the feeling this is one of those ‘accidents.’ Luckily the train has been very good about providing regular updates. I’m hoping I can get there by 2-3 pm and still have a good 5-6 hours.
 
The smallest one! 18. The 22 may work but isn’t the look I’m going for. I think.

I’m off to the H store to check some out. I tried on a black 18 in Lisbon last year and loved the size but not the colour. And a Craie/Crevette DS which I liked - the small size but not the colours.
I have the Pico 18 in indigo barenia with purple piping. It's cute and fun for quick errands, etc. I am pretty lazy about switching out of my K wallet, however, and the K wallet is almost too big for the Pico, LOL.
I agree that the color has to be perfect!! I hope you find one you love!
 
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Ok, who wants to see my window shopping results?
The store was not busy when I got there so I had a chance to chat w an SA

BV convertible (definitely out now)
Halzan mini and med and GP 30 in canvas
Pico 22
Celine mini, Mini Bolide, DS small (exotic!)

To reconfirm that I don’t enjoy black bags - I would get colour.
These are great, thanks! So helpful. I'm interested in the Halzans - - -
 
Genie I don't have a specific recommendation on the bags under consideration. I do have questions to guide your choice. I have spent probably years of my life pondering what makes a good handbag.

First in the decision making tree, is what do you want to carry in it? Contents determine size. I find that older I get, the less I need to carry. For me, a larger bag is a specialty situation bag. And in the size assessment, to me personally, the depth is key. I find bags that are too wide to be clumsy making.

Second, handles are crucial. Many people like cross body. I don't like the strap between the girls. For a larger bag, I like shoulder carry to distribute the weight. If I am looking for hands free/over the shoulder carry, the strap has to be really comfortable. Smaller bags--hand carry. I like "in my hand" more than carrying on my fore arm.

Weight is important. Especially for bigger bags. I greatly prefer leather lining, but it is just not practical for many larger bags.

Ease of getting into the bag. Degree of openness. This is very much influenced by the circumstances in which you will be carrying the bag. If security is not an issue, open top is nice as long as stuff doesn't fall out. If security is an issue, you will want a closeable bag.

Closures. If you want a secure closure, it is important to like the closure mechanism. I think the kelly is the most beautiful bag of all time, but the clasp is a bit of a pain. I personally have a quirk that I find zippers aesthetically unappealing. But there is nothing more secure than zippers. Kiss locks are the all time best IMHO, but not something you see often these days.

Color. Do you need a particular color to go with clothes that you are not happy about how your current bags go with them. Do you already have 5 bags in the color that you are looking at?

Structure. Some people like their bags to be a puddle of leather with handles. I personally like structured bags. To each their own. I think a lot of the dislike of the picton is its lack of structure. Cookiefiend was too modest in her critique of her picotin which is vibrato and therefore structured. I got the detailed scoop her hers, and it sounds divine. Of course, unstructured bags can be made structured with bag shapers, but that adds to the weight. Structured bags seem more prone to corner wear. Really unstructured bags can turn into a dark hole making it hard to pull out the item you want.

Interior. Do you like the number of pockets and dividers. A big bag that won't hold big stuff because of the dividers is sort of a waste.

How much of a beating will you give it and how much will it take. How scratch phobic are you? How careful do you want to have to be with this bag.

When I buy bags, I try to start from the point of what do I want the bag to do and then evaluate the bag against that criteria. Of course, there are bags that are love at first sight or bags that make us feel special in some way. None of the above criteria matter with those bags. Since you are trying to choose between several bags, I assume this is not an OMG I have to have this one particular bag situation. Still, it is nice to buy a bag that is functional and makes your heart skip a beat. So the love factor should not be over looked.
Cordy - I think you should start an advice thread here. SERIOUSLY!!! This is such a great post.
 
@Genie27 I like the Halzan and Bolide on you. That said, the Bolide looks like it's 27 and not the mini? There's a mini Bolide 1923 that's much smaller without any seams on the body.

@cafecreme15 Sorry to hear about the delay. Similar thing happened when we were on a day trip to Nuremberg from Munich. DH and I joked about German efficiency. :rolleyes:

@Cordeliere :tup: on the solid bag advise!
 
Annoying but from what I hear quite a regular occurrence. I experienced 8 accidents (or 'accidents') on British trains and on the Underground last year. One train left the route completely at break-neck speed without warning or further announcement and delivered us to a place I'd never heard of because someone was walking the tracks. The whole thing cost me 2 hours, but the feeling of bewilderment and panic was worse.

You will have a wonderful time in Paris to make up for it I'm sure.
Was happily on the way to Paris on Eurostar when the train stopped and the conductor announced that there’s been an accident on the tracks ahead. I will now be sitting on the train for 2-3 hours not moving *major facepalm*. Trying to now revise my itinerary in my head to account for having a massive part of my day ruined. Optimistically I will hopefully have 5 hours there before I have to turn back around to London.

Can I have the Totally Shocked (The Scream) Emoticon here plse.
 
Genie I don't have a specific recommendation on the bags under consideration. I do have questions to guide your choice. I have spent probably years of my life pondering what makes a good handbag.

First in the decision making tree, is what do you want to carry in it? Contents determine size. I find that older I get, the less I need to carry. For me, a larger bag is a specialty situation bag. And in the size assessment, to me personally, the depth is key. I find bags that are too wide to be clumsy making.

Second, handles are crucial. Many people like cross body. I don't like the strap between the girls. For a larger bag, I like shoulder carry to distribute the weight. If I am looking for hands free/over the shoulder carry, the strap has to be really comfortable. Smaller bags--hand carry. I like "in my hand" more than carrying on my fore arm.

Weight is important. Especially for bigger bags. I greatly prefer leather lining, but it is just not practical for many larger bags.

Ease of getting into the bag. Degree of openness. This is very much influenced by the circumstances in which you will be carrying the bag. If security is not an issue, open top is nice as long as stuff doesn't fall out. If security is an issue, you will want a closeable bag.

Closures. If you want a secure closure, it is important to like the closure mechanism. I think the kelly is the most beautiful bag of all time, but the clasp is a bit of a pain. I personally have a quirk that I find zippers aesthetically unappealing. But there is nothing more secure than zippers. Kiss locks are the all time best IMHO, but not something you see often these days.

Color. Do you need a particular color to go with clothes that you are not happy about how your current bags go with them. Do you already have 5 bags in the color that you are looking at?

Structure. Some people like their bags to be a puddle of leather with handles. I personally like structured bags. To each their own. I think a lot of the dislike of the picton is its lack of structure. Cookiefiend was too modest in her critique of her picotin which is vibrato and therefore structured. I got the detailed scoop her hers, and it sounds divine. Of course, unstructured bags can be made structured with bag shapers, but that adds to the weight. Structured bags seem more prone to corner wear. Really unstructured bags can turn into a dark hole making it hard to pull out the item you want.

Interior. Do you like the number of pockets and dividers. A big bag that won't hold big stuff because of the dividers is sort of a waste.

How much of a beating will you give it and how much will it take. How scratch phobic are you? How careful do you want to have to be with this bag.

When I buy bags, I try to start from the point of what do I want the bag to do and then evaluate the bag against that criteria. Of course, there are bags that are love at first sight or bags that make us feel special in some way. None of the above criteria matter with those bags. Since you are trying to choose between several bags, I assume this is not an OMG I have to have this one particular bag situation. Still, it is nice to buy a bag that is functional and makes your heart skip a beat. So the love factor should not be over looked.

One of the best posts ever and needs to appear as sticky on every subforum. Actually this is roughly how I decide which bag I carry everyday. Yes too much time on my hands. Running away now.
 
Thought of one other factor to consider:

Handle drop. This applies more to over the shoulder carry. I am an extremely tall person, so the small ladies can make shorter handles work over the shoulder, whereas I can't. I have learned that for me, 6 inch drop is the bare minimum for over the shoulder carry and that is tight. For me, 8 inches is ideal.

It is also important to think about the drop in terms of it being too much. Where do you want the bag to ride? I like over the shoulder bags to ride where the bottom aligns with my waist. A longer drop puts the bag at the hip, which is really a problem for me if the the bag has a deeper depth. That is: wide bag + hip makes narrow passages a disaster. I like my over the shoulder bags to ride under my arm so they are secure but unobtrusive.
 
Thought of one other factor to consider:

Handle drop. This applies more to over the shoulder carry. I am an extremely tall person, so the small ladies can make shorter handles work over the shoulder, whereas I can't. I have learned that for me, 6 inch drop is the bare minimum for over the shoulder carry and that is tight. For me, 8 inches is ideal.

It is also important to think about the drop in terms of it being too much. Where do you want the bag to ride? I like over the shoulder bags to ride where the bottom aligns with my waist. A longer drop puts the bag at the hip, which is really a problem for me if the the bag has a deeper depth. That is: wide bag + hip makes narrow passages a disaster. I like my over the shoulder bags to ride under my arm so they are secure but unobtrusive.
As I read this, I can picture my easiest bag to shoulder carry - the BV medium hobo. Perfect drop, zipper for security, hugs my side like a hungry toddler (the dark colour minimizes my top), base of bag hits my waistline. Holds a 500 ml water bottle, camera, scarf, and shades and still does not look bulky. And is super lightweight, and also looks good hand/arm-carried, although the drop is a bit too much for that. I had a Gucci hobo that was similar.

That mini Celine tote had the most useless handle drop ever - I could barely get my hand through it, forget the arm-carry option. The shoulder/cross strap is what really gets used on that bag.
 
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Was happily on the way to Paris on Eurostar when the train stopped and the conductor announced that there’s been an accident on the tracks ahead. I will now be sitting on the train for 2-3 hours not moving *major facepalm*. Trying to now revise my itinerary in my head to account for having a massive part of my day ruined. Optimistically I will hopefully have 5 hours there before I have to turn back around to London.
Oh! Paris!!
Enjoy what minutes you have in the most glorious City!
And please report back for those of us who are so sad to not be with you there!
 
Hi all! Ended up having a great 6 hours in Paris, and I met a new friend on the train; we ended up meeting up to grab dinner in Trocadéro before I headed back to the train.

Unfortunately I had to scratch the museum from my itinerary (had to prioritize some shopping), but I started my day in the Marais where I had a late lunch right outside along the Place des Vosges (over priced but worth it). The sun was shining for the first time in days and it was glorious. I then took a meandering route through the Marais, where I found the macaron shop you have all talked about before, Pierre Hermé. Of course I had to get a box of those. I also accidentally stumbled upon one of my favorite art galleries, Carré d’Artistes. I and crossed over the river to what I think is the Saint Germain neighborhood (?) to visit Majestic Filatures and Ateliers de la Maille, where I found a GREAT black cardigan. I stocked up on the super soft shirts I love from MF because they are so much cheaper here than in the US.

I wandered a bit more around Saint Sulpice, had a tea in a café where I found an amiable Parisian waiter, then went to Trocadero to meet my new friend. I have to say, Paris never gets old - its beauty has the power to bring me to the brink of tears every time. I just wish I had more time to stroll and take it in. I’m not totally sure it registered that I was even there. It was also so cool to go back to places that I bought watercolors of; it made those places extra special. I’ve included some photos below for the other Francophiles among us!
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