Hi all,
How do you gals deal with your SO's who travel and you hardly see and talk to them?
My BF just recently got a great job at a great firm in NYC, but it requires him to travel all the time, and we hardly see or talk to each other. This is a huge shock to me, as we always used to talk, even though we hardly saw each other but, its hard for him to find time to call me... I hate it and dont know how to deal with it.. when hes traveling, I get so paranoid that hes having fun without me, meeting new people (ie. women) and I get the worse nervous paranoid feelings.. I know he would (i hope) never cheat on me, because hes just not that kind of "ballsy" guy, and I tell him that these ideas of other women and liking his job too much and just not making me a priority anymore.. but, he assures me everything is fine and I believe him...
I just need some advice as to how to put my mind to rest and get used to not talking to him as much.. it hurts so bad.. I dont want to be a slave to my cellphone, carrying it everywhere with me (incl. the bathroom) for the fear that I would miss his call...
TIA
How do you gals deal with your SO's who travel and you hardly see and talk to them?
My BF just recently got a great job at a great firm in NYC, but it requires him to travel all the time, and we hardly see or talk to each other. This is a huge shock to me, as we always used to talk, even though we hardly saw each other but, its hard for him to find time to call me... I hate it and dont know how to deal with it.. when hes traveling, I get so paranoid that hes having fun without me, meeting new people (ie. women) and I get the worse nervous paranoid feelings.. I know he would (i hope) never cheat on me, because hes just not that kind of "ballsy" guy, and I tell him that these ideas of other women and liking his job too much and just not making me a priority anymore.. but, he assures me everything is fine and I believe him...
I just need some advice as to how to put my mind to rest and get used to not talking to him as much.. it hurts so bad.. I dont want to be a slave to my cellphone, carrying it everywhere with me (incl. the bathroom) for the fear that I would miss his call...
TIA