First LV please help!

I'm leaning toward to speedy 30 or Ava . My sister has speedy Damier and my SIL just bought speedy 25 in Azur. Argg!! Soo many choices . Why is it so hard to buy a handbag lol
because we are woman:Ptake the speedy, but which typ? mono is the classic, ebene is insensitive, azur looks like feminine;) Its difficult..i now