The ladies rings are the same as the men's, basically; just scaled down in size based on the ring size. Although they are still big rings! My wife loves the ring on me, but for her she felt the look, even if smaller, was too masculine.
I would say it depends on the lady. She is TINY so it is an overwhelming look on her. But I have female friends and colleagues that they would look great on. YMMV.
As for comfort, as I stated earlier: SUPER DEE DUPER COMFORTABLE. The width and contouring make it fit perfectly. Pardon the comparison, but almost like brass knuckles... I am able to make a fist, shake hands, etc with NO discomfort. Perfect.
As for sending it back, I am only doing so for it to be tweaked. I will get it back in a week or two, and I CAN'T WAIT!
I love this ring!!!
Just need it to be corrected in a few places, and the company is GLAD to do it. They stand behind their product 110% and exist for their customers to be happy. That has been my experience.
To be fair, the price point is such that I expect to be treated that way, LOL!