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I gave my SA a valentine's gift ( a heart pendant set in gold ). I don't think it's bribing as friends gift each other on special ocassions. I guess most of us have established a relationship/friendship with our SAs so i just looked at it as a normal thing between friends
Oh hi there papertiger, well, i guess i'm just generous. Oh and yes, lovely! Thanks dearA box of macaroons or good quality chocolates is a fitting gift for someone haveing gone out of their way to help or at Christmas. A gold heart piece of jewellery is the type of gift you give a loved one if they're lucky) or want to impress. On Valentine's day too? IMHO that is too much at the wrong time (even if she's friendly) unless you want to date her or bribe her (which I am sure is not the case).
You are a probably a lovely and generous person but If I was that SA I would be totally confused by the gift.
i couldn't agree more....i usually send a box of homemade cookies or gourmet popcorn for the whole staff at the holidays and always a thank you note when something ive wanted comes through for me....i jsut had to send an item for repair, about two weeks after scoring my Sanguine togo B, so i sent a huuuge box of almond roca and a thank you note to the whole staff since i was sending a repair item anyway, it didn't feel to contrived i guess is the point I am making....i think food and coffee items and good old fashioned thank you notes are always lovely and welcomed and NEVER inappropriate...anything else to me smacks of a bribe/payoff...It's interesting...I have no misgivings about sending food gifts to my SA (addressed to her and the entire staff) for Christmas. But I would feel funny sending her a gift for the arrival of an SO. It feels too much like a pay off, even if I was just doing it out of sheer happiness that it finally arrived!
It's interesting...I have no misgivings about sending food gifts to my SA (addressed to her and the entire staff) for Christmas. But I would feel funny sending her a gift for the arrival of an SO. It feels too much like a pay off, even if I was just doing it out of sheer happiness that it finally arrived!