Does everyone have a neverfull?
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+2. Carry what you like and if you see it everywhere, just think you are one of the lucky people to be able to own a bag that loved by most people
I agree with what a previous poster said: you always see this bag in the same design, that's what gets so redundant. MK watches are very popular, but there's so many different styles that you still feel as if yours is somewhat different. I pretty much see the monogram MM only, which makes it feel so tired. In my area, I personally have never seen the Epi NF.
You know what really drives me up the wall? When I see friends with the exact same bag. I don't know why adults insist on dressing like twins, it seems so juvenile.
You know what really drives me up the wall? When I see friends with the exact same bag. I don't know why adults insist on dressing like twins, it seems so juvenile.
Hmm. That's an unfair, pretty shallow judgment call on perfect strangers. They could be lovely, kind people who bought their bags on a trip together or to commemorate something special in their friendship. Judging them from afar seems more juvenile to me than carrying a bag my friend happens to also have.
+2. Carry what you like and if you see it everywhere, just think you are one of the lucky people to be able to own a bag that loved by most people
Yes! Thank you. Even if you see lots of Neverfulls, instead of feeling threatened or "bored" by them, you should feel lucky that you even get to carry one! Because to the majority of people in this world, it's a luxury that is out of reach.
There are a lot of things in life that are shallow. This entire forum is about handbags that are wants and not needs. I can’t deny that I’m making opinions about people and situations every day. It’s literally the way we are built: to make quick judgments whether things are friend/foe. Now does that mean if they interact with me in anyway, I’m going to be snobby to them? No: just because I make a judgment doesn’t mean I should treat them any different. I think it’s naïve to say we shouldn’t judge anything, including strangers. It’s just important that your actions don’t reflect the id.And about the friend commemoration: I’ve seen someone post here that her and her friend got NF epi in different colors. I think that’s lovely, but to me the exact same bag will look tired and coordinated.
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And about the friend commemoration: Ive seen someone post here that her and her friend got NF epi in different colors. I think thats lovely, but to me the exact same bag will look tired and coordinated.
You may call it naïve, I call it basic human kindness. We'll have to agree to disagree on this one.
If I see a jumpy large man staring at me in the middle of the night in a bad part of town, you can bet I’m going to be on guard when he approaches me. He could just be asking me for directions or he could be a tweaked out meth user about to rob me. I’m not going to approach this person the same as a child out of “basic human kindness.”
And if I see a decked out lady in Chanel and Hermes looking at me derisively and snickering with her friends, I’m not going to assume she’s saying something nice. Whether we like it or not, appearances matter greatly in human society.
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Wow. Well there's a humongous difference between feeling threatened for your safety as a female and judging someone for their bags. You can't conflate the two, they are different sort of judgments. One has to do with your OWN well-being, and the other has nothing to do with you.
Again, we're derailing the thread here, so let's just agree to disagree and move on.
It's such an easy, lightweight bag so they are very popular. I love it so I don't really care how many are out there. Usually, people will have a different print than I am carrying that day but if not that's ok too
Yes, agree to disagree. But to respond to your comment: they are 2 very different situations. What Im pointing out is that youre still making a judgment. Its ridiculous to think it just stops at survival. It gets diluted down to making quick judgments about people on a daily basis: on whether this person is friend/foe or if youll like this person. To be happy that someone shares the same bag as part of a club is still judging that person. They have nothing to do with you, but you already think positively towards a stranger.
Any anthropology/sociology/psychology textbook would support the fact that we all judge people. Besides, you seemed to have missed the most important part of my post: judgments should not dictate how you treat a stranger.
At the end of the day, I totally agree, people should buy what they want. The person you have to live with the most is yourself. If youre happy, cool beans. If you dont want the bag because you think it's banal and it makes you happy to buy a different bag, go for it.
I fell in love with the Neverfull since it came out and have been admiring it since. Just last week my husband surprised me on vacation by purchasing the MM in Damier Azul for me and I am in love with it!!!
I will say that I have seen more and more people with that same style, but in the monogram print. It is a common bag now just like the Speedy, but it is also one of the more practical styles. I think it is a good value, esp now since it comes with the detachable clutch.
I will say that I have seen more and more people with that same style, but in the monogram print. It is a common bag now just like the Speedy, but it is also one of the more practical styles. I think it is a good value, esp now since it comes with the detachable clutch.
