SuLi said:
Hello all!
So, I was wondering if all of you think that black goes with everything? I'm one of those "crazy" people that needs to be color-coordinated, although I am trying to get over being so neurotic. I feel that I can't use a black bag unless I am wearing black. I used to be very particular about wearing gold or silver jewelry depending on the hardware on the bag, but I've gotten over it. I can't seem to get over not using a bag because I'm not wearing color that matches it. Am I totally weird :blink: ?
Does anyone else feel the same way?
We have a couple of characters called Trinny and Susannah on BBC TV and they always say 'Never wear colour with black.'.
I (and apparently, most designers, most human beings and God and/or Mother Nature) say :censor: to that!!!
I agree with them that wishy-washy, mid-toned, muted colours like faded light-toned reds, greens, or blues do look apalling with black. As black 'kills' weak colours.
However, bright and jewel-toned colours like bright or ruby red, bright or sapphire blue, bright or emerald green and dark-toned bright pink can look amazing with black. As can
very light-toned colours like blush pink and pale blue and
very dark-toned colours like navy blue and brown.
Basically, if it occurs in nature, it 'works'. So, the colours of planets and stars in a 'black' night sky, the colours of tropical fish in a deep 'black' ocean, the contrasting colours of insects' bodies etc. 'work'.
What Trinny and Susannah see when they stargaze is beyond me. Or perhaps they've lived in London for so long, they've forgotten what a night sky looks like?!
IMO, there is nothing wrong with a bit of co-ordination as long as it doesn't look too forced. If your footwear and bag match exactly, in both style and colour, that might look a bit much if worn with a casual outfit; but that doesn't mean that you should actively avoid co-ordination, as that could leave you looking as though you got dressed in the dark!
My suggestion would be to wear the black bag with two other black, or partially black elements; perhaps black jewellery and/or a black belt and/or black footwear (but probably not of a matching style). Also, perhaps, tie a scarf around the handle of the bag which compliments the colour of your footwear (if different), or contains some, or all, of the colours of your outfit.
By the way - I'm with you on mixing hardware colours with jewellery. I think that you should either wear all one colour (silver or gold-tone), or mix the two very thoroughly. As wearing just one element in a different colour, definitely looks dodgy to me!
