Thank you so so so much. I think you're right. The buyer said someone wanted her to provide a bank statement (?!) which, understandably, she was unwilling to do. Who knows. As long as I get it back!
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Thank you so so so much. I think you're right. The buyer said someone wanted her to provide a bank statement (?!) which, understandably, she was unwilling to do. Who knows. As long as I get it back!
I've bought 3 bags on Posh and all have been not as described after seller claimed they were like new with no wear. #1 had multiple small holes that looked like a cat really enjoyed the bag and put its claw marks all over it. #2 had a big hole where the stitching was coming apart and in general had scratches and wear all over. #3 had multiple stains/marks. I'm still waiting to hear back from Posh regarding this 3rd case. I was surprised about this last one as the seller had like 100 love notes with good transactions. I'm not buying anymore bags there.
Oh, and, low balling is still rampant but I don't sell anything designer anyway. I've sold a couple pairs of Converse and a Victoria's Secret sports bra I accidentally ordered in the wrong size and missed the window to return, NBD. On one of the pairs of Converse that I had listed for $35, someone came in with $20 as an offer (which isn't as bad as $5 for an authentic Neverfull or something, but it was still close to half what I listed it for). I was never going to wear them anyway but I countered back at $25 and she countered again at $24. You just GOTTA get that good deal, girl!! I was laughing about haggling over a dollar.
I accepted though, I needed them out of my closet anyway, they were taking up space.
I'm going to list some more of my NWOT shoes that I impulse bought, though. May as well get a little money back. Maybe I'll find another stellar deal on something high end and authentic.
I don't think I'm gutsy enough to list any of my designer stuff. The only problem with my closet being mostly $30-$50 items is people think I don't know what I'm talking about when I call out fakes.
Try Mercari.
I've had better success with unwanted clutter from my closets. There's still haggling but not as much.
I actually like Mercari less. I've heard loads of horror stories from sellers, even more than the horror stories in this thread about Posh. I'll buy from Mercari but apparently many of the buyers there are scummy and damage stuff beyond recognition for returns. I know it can happen anywhere but I dunno, for some reason I feel like Posh has a seller's back a little more as long as there's good documentation.
I'm a little skiddish about selling things of high value anyway, but I can deal with people trying to haggle on pairs of shoes I've had sitting in my closet for a year plus never worn, hahaha.
Mercari's customer service is HORRENDOUS. I had to return something once because it really was not as described. (Dirty, stained, etc). It took them over a week to approve the return. Then, from the point the item was delivered back to the seller - it took them 45 days to credit me. I would reach out every few days & nudge, but never got a human response. It was pitiful. Never again!I actually like Mercari less. I've heard loads of horror stories from sellers, even more than the horror stories in this thread about Posh. I'll buy from Mercari but apparently many of the buyers there are scummy and damage stuff beyond recognition for returns. I know it can happen anywhere but I dunno, for some reason I feel like Posh has a seller's back a little more as long as there's good documentation.
I'm a little skiddish about selling things of high value anyway, but I can deal with people trying to haggle on pairs of shoes I've had sitting in my closet for a year plus never worn, hahaha.
I enjoy browsing PM and have gotten some incredible deals, but I've also gotten blocked from SO MANY CLOSETS for calling out fakes.
This one girl came into my closet and wrote hateful things on my Meet the Posher listing for asking if her bag was authentic or not. Needless to say I deleted that listing, blocked her, and made another Meet the Posher listing.
Another girl told me I could stick it up my you-know-where for telling her that the date code in her LV Sarah Wallet wasn't valid (MI1043 - if you know LVs you can spot the issue a mile away), then a few hours later she posted the wallet again after deleting to get rid of my comments and said in her listing "I'm not sure if this is authentic, it was a gift." No, love, it /isn't/ authentic, 2 seconds of googling can tell you that. I had a similar issue with a woman claiming she bought her bag at a "factory store" (where I live, 'factory stores' are the same as outlet stores and LV doesn't have those) with a date code that defies logic. Ugh.
You have to be INCREDIBLY smart and careful and you have to do so much research if you want to use something like PoshMark or Mercari (which is so, so much worse than Posh about having fakes, by the way - I lucked out and got an incredible deal on a real bag once but 90+% of the stuff listed is fake there).
Join the club girl! I've gotten so many hateful messages on my listings for calling out fake shoes, it's unreal. My canned statement is usually "hey I'm not sure if you're aware, but these unfortunately aren't authentic", and that tends to go over better than others. Of course, the scammers still get upset. I hate when it happens, but I won't stop calling them out until I can actually report something and it gets deleted right away! You're right though, you have to know what you're doing when you buy. I won't buy bags because I don't know what I'm looking for.
In regards to deleting comments...Posh has thankfully started deleting some of the comments that are harassment. I had someone get mad about me telling them their shoes weren't real, and they made a profile called "b*tchyoutriedit" and commented on all of my listings (I was sleeping and didn't see it till morning). I reported her and emailed posh and had my friends report as well, and her page and comments all went away!
See, I won't buy designer shoes from there because I don't know everything to look for and I wouldn't buy any brands I haven't done my own research on first. I have bought a couple pairs of inexpensive shoes from there that came in as described that I can wear socks in because I dunno, sometimes I'm just a little weird about wearing shoes other people have owned and worn a lot, hahaha. If they're NWT or NWOT or worn once or twice it's okay, but anything 'well loved' isn't anything I'm interested in in the shoe department, hahaha!!![]()
It seems like a lot of the listings are things that are very, very well loved. I am not a fussy person at all but I can't imagine buying something that worn out. It doesn't look like it'd survive more than a couple wears with me.
I've gotten quite a few shoes that have only been worn once or twice and are still in great condition. It doesn't bother me at all haha, but I've been wearing secondhand shoes for years! Actually, it's very rare that I get new shoes lol. I have a hard time (especially if they are Louboutins) wearing shoes for the first time and messing up the bottom, so I prefer if someone already did the hard work for me haha!
In truth, I just have a shopping problem and buying used is the only way I can afford buying so much lol.