Hmmm....good question! I definitely can understand a lot of us who don't want to stand out or just want to blend into the background!
I only started buying "contemporary designer" (
Coach and Michael Kors) and "high-end designer" very recently (literally like a week ago was my first
Gucci). I previously only purchased from discounters or low/mid-price retailers (Marshalls, Bakers, Aldo, TJ Maxx, Meijer, Payless, Ross, JC Penney) for Nine West, Kenneth Cole, Tommy Hilfiger, Guess, Jessica Simpson or minor designer names.
All of these bags held up for about 2-3 years before the hardware would get reddish brown tarnishing, peeling on the handles or handle screws/thread breaking away, or gummy from the glue.
Of all of those handbags and wallets,
only the Nine West handbag (it's about 13-15 years old) is still in pretty OK condition without tarnishing, handle peels or getting gummy. I accepted those things as *standards*...
Flash forward, the hardware on my Henri Bendel is doing okay, and the tough crossgrain leather is great in the rain. I also do not foresee the handles *ever* breaking away from the bag. In fact, as my most expensive item, I was relieved to hear that I can take any such defects back to HB for repair at no cost (we shall see). After having so many bag handles break away from bags that were $20, and being quoted $20+ to repair them, I really appreciate buying items that I do not have to babysit and can use.
That said...I love the designer bags' looks, especially now that my style is pretty simple and basic colors/silhouettes...but I honestly don't feel comfortable with the judgment that will come from people if they see me with them. "She should give that money to....." or "Why does she want to show off to.....?" or "Her uncle/cousin/sister/father/brother/auntie lost a job and could've used that $$" I mean, I bought a printer once that could print color and someone thought I was bragging when I printed a page for them! So I will probably always buy something non-contemporary/high-end designer for the bag depending on where I am going (Calvin Klein has some cute reversible totes!) and stick my designer SLGs inside, since I really like the way they look and seem to hold up compared to my old ones.