great post. i too am a large handbag lover, but only because i carry SO MUCH!. Makeup case w/brush and advil, 4 glosses (why so many!?) etc etc, phone, mp3 player, keys w/large keyrings, large wallet, book/magazine, sunglasses in a big case. and then there is room for a cardigan or scarf and water/snacks, small purchases, etc.
i truly feel like i NEED to carry all of this stuff with me all the time. and why?? surely i don't use it all all the time.
I just purchased a HH Lorca. i wasn't going to buy it, as it is so small and i have no idea what i'll do with it, but i've decided that maybe it's time to pare down and see what i can do without carrying. i'm sure my shoulders, neck and arms will thank me.
as a teenager, my backpack was my "purse" and after that i had a med. size guess bag, that i could still fit a lot into. i guess i've always been one to carry a lot.
but it's true, as we get older, there is just more stuff to carry.