Hi all, I just signed in to this forum today, great place for Chanel info!! For my first Chanel,I am just thinking of getting a black Caviar medium (saw the lambskin in the store, really soft to the touch, is it that 'vulnerable' as alot of people said?), so would you recommend silver or gold hardware? Some info about myself, I am 5.5 Ft, about 113 pounds, long hair, fair skin,wear only minimum accesories. await your valuable comments.