I am just going to add that the sentence I bolded above is very, very wrong in a couture order, and I think it sums up the entire problem. Customers are worried that their bag won't be what they ordered, that they are going to have to fight to get things fixed and that is NOT a luxury experience, IMO. If I ordered BEC I would expect the best, nothing less.
I'm still here but have let my wallet do my talking and not bought anything BE at all anymore, but I still love to look at all the successful eye candy that rolls out.
I have to agree that the BEC experience should not be scary. I can't even imagine how upset I would be if I finally placed my BEC order for a black crash Rock Me only to find that it arrives wrong after I have waited in anticipation.
I love my BE bags, but something definitely has to be done to make sure that bags are not arriving different than the confirmed order.