So I have a few busy days coming so I wanted to report in on the teal suede Anniversary haversack. It is almost dry after less than 36 hours, which I sort of hoped/expected between the weight of the suede and going through a spin cycle.
First off, after going through a gentle cycle in old school top loader (filled the tub with warm water 1/2 way, rest with cold and teaspoon of baby shampoo, in an old flannel pillow case secured with hair elastic, with a dark towel and sheet , not quite a full load) there does not appear to be any fading and there was no bleeding onto the lining.
Overall I feel it was a very good result! The bag overall was grimy. I had toothbrush spot cleaned a few areas here and there with a dilute Dawn solution and that did remove some surface grime. There was still marked grime over areas of stress / contact like the front and back pockets and creases that angle down from the handles that naturally occur from using and carrying the bag. And this bag was used!
So my result is that there is still some *dirty* discoloration in the areas where it is prone to happen. However I feel between the gorgeous teal color *popping* out after the wash combined with the *dirty* areas being dialed down a couple of notches, I can look at the whole bag and will enjoy it!
I will post a pic when I can, but do to my photo skills and lighting, am not sure if I can capture the sublte changes, as I didn't capture the full grime effect in my before pics.
Brushing the daylights out it as I finish my coffee

Thanks to all who post their processes and suggestions here, you made this happen