That's what I think happened. The edges of the hole are burnt and you can see the way the leather exploded. A tote is probably not the best place to carry a firearm.
I don't know if it was a good thing or not that the leather fell out of the hole. On one hand, it seems like a more quality repair to get rid of all the old damaged leather but on the other, I have a lot more work to do now. At least it seems like I have a lot more work to do. I will have to get the texture right when I am getting to the last coat of gel medium. I really wish I would have taken whateve's advice about the ink though. Either way I would have ended up having to color match or redye to cover up the patch job. I got the purse to work on it and learn and I am definitely getting my money's worth! I wish my experiments would always be a success though.
Oh you are so fearless - I love it! That bag would be in the too-hard/donor/tassel leather pile for me, so I'm fascinated to see your process. From doing home repairs, I'd say the hole getting bigger was good - your fix will be much more solid. I feel your ink pain - I just made a faint pen mark on suede much worse.
Re the graining, wondering if there are DIY approaches, like (and these are crazy ideas, but you never know) silly putty, Crayola kids moldable 'clay', or a thick layer of heat-gunned paraffin on a block to make a stamp? You might also photocopy part of the bag and trace over the grain lines onto a piece of foam/polymer clay/whatever. Never tried any of these but worked in an art studio where we tried weird fixes all the time and they sometimes worked!
Looking forward to seeing how it goes, whatever you decide!