I am just curious a to whether you go check on your dh, so, kids etc. when you come into the house. When I come home I like to check on everyone to make sure they are okay and even if I know they should be asleep I go and check to make sure I know where everyone is and what they are doing. Now this is a stark contrast from my husband who will come in the house sit down, turn on the TV and stay there for several hours. Now this really irks me because I always come up with scenario that if there is something wrong you checking on us could be the difference between life or death. Extreme I know, but it is possible. Should this irk me so much? I feel like he could care less about his family and more about the sports stats. Or do you think this is just a differece between men and women. Either way it still ticks me off.