Am torn between 225 black reissue aged calf skin bags in black hardware and ruthenium hardware. I already have a dark clothing wardrobe, usually casual, bare minimum to no jewellery. Only contrast in wardrobe would be the jacket and shoes, don't have many special events to go to besides a wedding once in a while. Thoughts in terms of look and hardware wear&tear for keeping as a forever bag? Aside from Mulberry mini quilted cara bag, my other black bags are on the larger side so I don't really have a nice evening bag in black. I'm also 5ft tall, how many of you carry it crossbody and with chain drop, where abouts does the bag sit on your body?