Have any of you ladies had to choose between your dream career or staying with your BF/having a family? If you haven't made that choice before in your life, what would you do? Would it matter if you were married? What if you were just boyfriend/girlfriend, and you weren't sure if marriage was going to happen? What factors would matter. And remember, I'm talking about DREAM career, or somthing that you've been working hard for for YEARS. What do you think?