sgj99
You are living in a fantasy world. But I get why you need to, the truth is just too traumatic. I see the two sides of how men behave on a daily basis at work. Men behave differently when the wife isn't around. The percentage that don't is very small. Yes, they do exist, but they are few and FAR between. No one will actually tell you this, they'll just talk about you behind your back and feel sorry for you. It is what it is.
That's a generalization about men... The good guys do exist and from what I've seen, they aren't too few and far between. I'm lucky to have found one myself.