I’m going to have an unpopular opinion.
Hermes does not make a good “Mommy” or Diaper bag.
Mommy bags IMO should be inexpensive. Things that you won’t get upset if they’re soiled by vomit, poo, or pee. Which inevitably occurs with young kids. And you need to set said bags down in less than sanitary conditions, e.g. public changing facilities.
Babies and young kids can be at times gross, and sticky. They don’t understand precious things. I remember reading that one of Victoria Beckham’s kids got ketchup on one of her shiny croc bags....
if you are comfortable putting a 4- to 5-figure bag in the washing machine... Go right ahead.
The good thing is that kids grow up. Then you can wear nice things again.