Ben Affleck

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Ben is the same with every girl, no matter which Jen, or any other girl, he seems more interested in himself and ‘his ways’. He’s not even trying to hide who he is, and they are fully aware.
He is an addict. Until he deals with that, he will not have any type of successful relationship. Plus, he might have some mental health co-morbidity as well.
He sounds exhausting and is aware enough to turn on the charm to hook the person and go back to being unbearable.
That engraving in Jlo ring? Manipulating to the 10th level.
Not going anywhere….. with you! Gotcha.
How can Jlo heal from all that crap? OTOH, at 55 she is old enough to know better.
 
I find it curious that some think they know how Ben behaves, why he behaves that way, and what he and JL want. Do you know them personally? Or do you live next door? Or…have you hired a private investigator? Kidding…but I do wonder…;)
Body language, facial expressions, captured split second moments.... a lot of entertainment there.....:biggrin:
 
J Lo might not have the nepo baby, old money wasp lineage of Bunny, Cricket, Trip or Kick, but she's got a legacy all her own. Where would google images be if not for her and her infamous Versace dress?

Anyway, apparently Hunter Harris wrote in her newsletter about these two Leos:
There are two types of Leos. There is the absurdly main character, microphone-on-me-at-all-times, spotlight-conjuring, has-never-felt-a-small-emotion, doing their big one-Leo — let’s call this the Jennifer Lopez way. What could be a better thesis of this than Lopez making an album to make a movie to make a documentary just to have another wedding only to ruin her marriage? There is also the subtler (dare I say more demure?) Leo, the one who has very specific needs and whims, who will go nonverbal if those needs aren’t met. This type is high maintenance but cosplays as low maintenance. Let’s say they don’t insist on the spotlight, but they certainly aren’t interested in living without it. Tell me if that reminds you of what you know about Ben Affleck.

Her PR team is in overdrive this weekend with leaks to People about all of Affleck's faults.





Speaking with Good Morning America in December 2021, Affleck opened up about his role as a father and how his kids' opinions are the only ones that matter to him.

"I will be long dead and someone will ask my kids, 'What was your dad like?' and that is when I will know what my life was worth," he said.


Huh? Does he know something we don't about the afterlife?

People is definitely trying to make him look bad. Stepparent/stepchildren relationships are often tricky. Just because he may not have bonded with her kids the way she did with his doesn't make him a villain. My cynical side says she may have intentionally, consciously or not, formed a strong bond with his oldest daughter Violet as a way to keep a hold on him. I remember reading when she was with A Rod that their four kids, her twins and his two daughters, had bonded so well. I wonder how that's going? I personally know of some very tangled marital relationships, and my sympathy is always for the kids involved.
 
This is how crazy the media is, Jen G had to go out on a date so that the media would quit with the stories that she's broken up with John Miller.

Oh no! She fell into the PR circus too?!


Let’s not forget this famous Garner quote who doesn’t speak publicly about her family, but this nugget here was so telling about Ben:

He’s just a complicated guy,” the actress told Vanity Fair. “I always say, ‘When his sun shines on you, you feel it.’ But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it’s cold. He can cast quite a shadow.”
 
So, Ben's production company produced the documentary "The Greatest Love Story Never Told" and, apparently, the whole thing was his idea and he molded and controlled the narrative for publicity.


It really seems like he duped her big-time. It seems like their PR teams are in overdrive trying to control the narrative of why they split, where it went wrong, etc. The weird part is that for months they were silent letting the media gossip about the state of their marriage and now everyone's chattering. We are definitely in the Spin Zone now.
 
i am having trouble buying that her ego wasn’t the big issue in that movie.
She is totally delulu to think that doc/movie was flattering/interesting. According to Amazon, there is an upstick in viewership.
OTOH, it appears that Ben is one of those fair weather person. He was obviously participating/producing the project, thus he was not really opposed to it. He is mad that they both look cray.
 
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