HOH, you are too sweet! I'm psyched you're looking into the venetia--I think you'll love it. So I'm totally new to this, but I am getting a little better at spotting the fakes. (Like, the font on those black venetias questioned recently gave me hives and three weeks ago I wouldn't have known better!)
Anyway, FWIW, I've compared mine to the pics on her ebay listing. I think my color is from Fall04 and I'm not sure if the style gets updated at all, so the other ladies will have to pitch in on whether what I'm saying even matters, but here's what I noticed:
In that closeup of the handles and buckles, see that leather piping at the top left? It should continue all the way around, yet I noticed that in the closeup of the zipper pull, the stitching doesn't continue to the piping (or maybe it's a bad pic?); in fact, it's unclear that the piping is there at all. When you look at mine from the side, the zipper hits at the point where the V-shaped piece of leather is, and then there are about three stitches on either side of the V until both sides hit the piping.
Let us know what happens!

SF