Wait though. Has the buyer actually received the refund yet?? I personally would NOT destroy the bag first before a refund because if you destroy the bag somehow then the buyer could refuse the refund and you wouldn't have a case because you ruined the bag...
Then again maybe I read too many horror stories in the ebay thread...
I think it may be the horror stories in the ebay thread that make all of us nuts.
I believe the buyer and the seller can work this one out without drama! I hope so.
