Yes, we are clearly seeing a different mindset, a shift towards the externally visible, as you have pointed out. Clothing, accessories, cars, etc. Bigger homes, but with inexpensive finishes, square footage has trumped quality in construction, and very little consideration is given to quality of furnishings. I'm not sure when this change began, but it probably is a byproduct of social media and reality television.
Things seem so different from a generation ago, when my parents would carefully select each piece, expanding on a lifetime of knowledge as they went, and creating a wonderful and very personal space.
I remember their conversations and the careful consideration given to each piece: a pair of sconces, a Pembroke table, a fruitwood tea caddy - no piece too small to be well thought out.
Generational priorities change, and luxury goods and cars appear to be the beneficiary.
When it comes to purchases, I've done some of both over the last several years: a few key pieces for the home, a few personal accessories. With this most recent price increase, I'll just focus on other areas.
I feel very fortunate to have what I have.
This is actually a great time to acquire Oriental rugs and even American and English antiques, as overall preferences have gravitated towards overscale furniture and monochromatic rugs. In these areas, the educational process is just as valuable and enjoyable as the acquisition.