I'm going to a wedding in December and I am considering getting a new wristlet to use as a clutch so I can get more than a few uses out of it. The wristlet I'm looking at is the Chelsea turnlock in black leather (b/c it's a good size). My dress is a little black dress from J.Crew--Sophia silk chiffon. Do you think the wrislet is dressy enough??? Would a diff wristlet be better? I love those evening bags someone just posted, but for my budget....not so good! Help! What should I get?