Some things you say don't add up, and I'm wondering if some exaggeration is involved.
If the HR person is only a recruiter who has been temping for the company since February, how on earth would she have any sort of authority over terminating anyone there, including you? So why would you even let whatever she "threatens" bother you then?
And if she's only been there since February, then how did she possibly have hired "Grandpa A" in 30 days, so he's thus also a new hire to the company, hired before you, right? And already seems to have significant responsibilities and has significantly goofed off for only a month without reprimand?
Who does he actually report to and why isn't that person involved in his poor performance, especially in what is typically considered to be a probationary period?
Seems to me that if neither employee A or B (I can't call them "boys", sorry, that's unprofessional too) reports directly to you yet things have escalated this much, why aren't their bosses involved - meaning why haven't you escalated the situation if this work falls on you to shepherd it to a successful conclusion? Get em in a room and hash it out, as another poster suggested, but keep the meddling temp to perm recruiter out of it.
I wish there was in an exaggeration. Unfortunately this is all true.
If you really must know, this HR person started last week of Jan. She doesn't have any authority over termination and I believe I stated that in the other response to Midge S. Please re-read this thread.
Whatever she threatens bothers me because she is HR in the end of the day. I take them seriously whether or not they're meant to be serious as would any person IMO.
My explanation of her start date should clear up any confusion you have regarding the hiring of Employee A (I'm refusing to call him ****). When I said he was a grandpa, I meant it in as he is an actual grandpa - not intending for it to be interpreted in a derogatory manner.
Yes he is a new hire in the company and hired before me. He has duties in accordance to his position which is different from mine. He has "goofed" (your words, not mine) for more than a month and he has been reprimanded by HR.
He somewhat reports to me but ultimately reports to my boss. As I've stated in the beginning posts of this thread, when I first noticed his behaviour - my immediate reaction was to reprimand him there and then but HR advised me to back off due to his personal issues.
I handle tactical so it's my responsibility to make sure they do their work. My boss has final say as to whether or not these gentleman (btw, when I say "boys", I mean it in a friendly fashion - I refer to my own guy friends as "boys" but that's besides the point) are employed period.
I didn't know that Employee A was lying about completing his work until after the project was over. We found out the last day of the project. Prior to then, every time his name was mention, HR literally said "leave him alone, he is delivering". Well guess what? He wasn't. We both took whatever he said as gold and he turned out NOT to be a man of his word.
Once again, I could not have brought them in the same room to hash it out the day of the email because Employee A was enraged and I'm 97% sure there would have been a physical altercation. Have you ever seen grown men enraged? That's what I saw that day. He was still so peeved that the day after - when my boss brought them both in a room, employee A was calling employee B names.
Please reread this thread again because Midge S actually suggested having me, my boss and the HR (temp to perm) collaborating in a room to resolve this. Not employee A and employee B and myself.
Lesson learned the hard way - I am keeping the HR person out of it. Her heart is in the right place but she doesn't have access to the final product or output and that's burning.