I need some advice from you guys.
I work at a car dealership and was promoted to a position in the office from service receptionist about three years ago. When I was approached about the job I was hesitant to take it because of having to work Saturdays. I was expecting to work a Monday through Friday job but that turned out to not be the case. There is another woman who does the same job as me who has been here for over fifteen years. After going over the job requirements I expressed hesitation about working every Saturday. The woman who offered me the job called in my counterpart (the other woman who does the same job as me) and suggested going on a Saturday rotation (my counterpart never had to work Saturdays before) and she flipped a you-know-what. So basically I was guilty stricken and after a lot of grumbles agreed to work every Saturday. Now its three years later and I have regrets. I have missed out on a lot of opportunities to do things because I am working.
Fast forward to yesterday where I approached my boss about rotating Saturdays with my counterpart. He was surprised since he thought I liked working every Saturday since I have a day off during the week and while having that is great, I would like the chance to enjoy weekends and socialize with friends and family. Also, myself and my counterpart are the ONLY department that doesn't rotate. The parts, service and sales departments are all on a Saturday rotation.
Now, I understand that it would majorly suck for my counterpart as she has never had to work Saturdays before, but I took on every weekend because of the temper tantrum she threw when it was brought up three years ago. Now I can't sleep and I've been so anxiety ridden since yesterday and almost feel like I need to retract what I said because of the guilt of changing the schedule. But on the other side, I have taken on every Saturday for this woman and she's never stepped up to the plate in terms of offering to cover a Saturday for me to give me a chance to have a weekend here and there (I maybe ask for two Saturdays off a YEAR.)
So that being said, do you think I'm being selfish? I see both sides. I see how it's unfair for her since she's never had to include Saturdays into her schedule, but on my side she's kind of gotten away with having every weekend off for three years. I'm so torn and like I said, anxiety ridden. A lot of my friends agree with me about the rotation, but I can't stop thinking about how my counterpart will react. Nothing has happened yet in terms of a conversation with both of us so I have no idea how this will play out, but you guys are always brutally honest and helpful.
Sorry for the long post!
I work at a car dealership and was promoted to a position in the office from service receptionist about three years ago. When I was approached about the job I was hesitant to take it because of having to work Saturdays. I was expecting to work a Monday through Friday job but that turned out to not be the case. There is another woman who does the same job as me who has been here for over fifteen years. After going over the job requirements I expressed hesitation about working every Saturday. The woman who offered me the job called in my counterpart (the other woman who does the same job as me) and suggested going on a Saturday rotation (my counterpart never had to work Saturdays before) and she flipped a you-know-what. So basically I was guilty stricken and after a lot of grumbles agreed to work every Saturday. Now its three years later and I have regrets. I have missed out on a lot of opportunities to do things because I am working.
Fast forward to yesterday where I approached my boss about rotating Saturdays with my counterpart. He was surprised since he thought I liked working every Saturday since I have a day off during the week and while having that is great, I would like the chance to enjoy weekends and socialize with friends and family. Also, myself and my counterpart are the ONLY department that doesn't rotate. The parts, service and sales departments are all on a Saturday rotation.
Now, I understand that it would majorly suck for my counterpart as she has never had to work Saturdays before, but I took on every weekend because of the temper tantrum she threw when it was brought up three years ago. Now I can't sleep and I've been so anxiety ridden since yesterday and almost feel like I need to retract what I said because of the guilt of changing the schedule. But on the other side, I have taken on every Saturday for this woman and she's never stepped up to the plate in terms of offering to cover a Saturday for me to give me a chance to have a weekend here and there (I maybe ask for two Saturdays off a YEAR.)
So that being said, do you think I'm being selfish? I see both sides. I see how it's unfair for her since she's never had to include Saturdays into her schedule, but on my side she's kind of gotten away with having every weekend off for three years. I'm so torn and like I said, anxiety ridden. A lot of my friends agree with me about the rotation, but I can't stop thinking about how my counterpart will react. Nothing has happened yet in terms of a conversation with both of us so I have no idea how this will play out, but you guys are always brutally honest and helpful.
Sorry for the long post!