Mik, with all due respect, I think we all know where you stand,
but the fact that you refuse to budge in your opinions shouldn't really stop others discussing things if they want to, should it? Personally I think there's a long way between a lying famewhore and a Sainty McSainterson who can do no wrong, so I don't actually think it has to be one or the other.
Zola brought up a really interesting point (sorry, no clue how to multi quote!) about how we tend to project however we are feeling onto paparazzi pics, and I think that can be true to some extent about how we view celebrities we're interested in full stop, I think that is a big part of what makes forums like this interesting -
half of what we speculate about Askars reveals a lot more about ourselves than him. 
Years ago, I had an extremely ill advised fling with a somewhat famous musician, and once came across a fan account of observing us in his car (we were behind a car full of fans in traffic leaving a gig) - they were all convinced that we were in a fight, and had all sorts of theories as to what was going on, ranging from I was jealous of fan attention to he couldn't handle being with a woman who wasn't a blow up groupie type (I'm brunette - shocking!) ...
the truth? I was jetlagged and half falling asleep and he was preoccupied with an interview he had to do early the next day with a journalist who had slated him before.
Which isn't to say that everyone (or even anyone!) here is sitting projecting their issues onto the Mount Askars by any means, but we just have to look at the gloriously entertaining Twihard meltdown to see what happens when fans think they really know what's going on with any celebrity...