I have been following this forum for many months and wanted to add my two cents.
I suspect Alex and Kate relationship began as friends, while filming Straw Dogs, and then turned romantic, but they are probably better suited to remain as friends. I feel he truly does care for her but does not have the passion/lust/love thing for her. Like any man they like the chase and I feel she will give him anything he wants and this is probably boring the **** out of him. She does not challenge him, and I could never imagine her telling him no. Alex loves a challenge. On a side note.. The guy who took the photo of Alex and Kate, in the crowd at the WOW festival, where she is looking at him with doe eyes. He said Alex was given Snus by his friend and Alex asked Kate if he could have some Snus and the photo was snapped during her reaction. She has pleading eyes in that picture. Almost passive aggressive. Not an I love you deeply image when you know the backstory.
If Alex was truly in love he would be letting everyone know. Even private celebrities share tender moments in public, or at least walk next to each other.He is not modest and he is not as shy as he appears. If he truly loved her he would not care who knows. If he can be comfortable naked then he can show affection to the one he loves on public, while sober.
I also believe the Emmy no show speaks volumes. Kate has known of this date for several months, Her schedule is not booked out and I am sure she could have moved her schedule around to accommodate an Emmy invite. She has been able to attend every other awards show of after party with him, why would this be different?
He was able to attend and he flew out from Sweden with jet lag to make it. My gut is telling me they are not together anymore. I feel she was probably planning to attend all along, but they broke up so he asked Bjorne to go instead.
It's hard enough the have a perfect relationship last in the hollywood machine, and this relationship was plagued with problems from the beginning.
The scary thing I found is if you take both their birthdays and do a love match they have a 94% compatibility based on their astrological signs. Go figure!