Okay, I've been gawking at LVs for a VERY long time!! Now that I'm an "adult" with a job and a family, I feel that it is time to splurge a little on myself and make the "big" purchase. Any advice for a newbie who wants her first LV??? I'm loving the Speedy's (nice classic bag) but I'm open to other opinions. If I do go with a Speedy...should I do a 25 or a 30? Damier or Mono? HELP!!!