japskivt- I think the shoes look great on you! If they don't cause discomfort and you really like the shoe I'd say keep them, they look great!
I feel your pain. As a fellow wide-footed lady, I always have concerns about spillage. However, I think yours will stretch and the overhange will go away like it did on my patent VP's.
Aww, I'm sorry they didn't work out for you jap, but honestly I think they look great on you.