I think pink can be a neutral and can be much more flattering than white depending on your coloring and style.Yes, exactly, you are making the rules and the colors need to be right for you! You often read that for a capsule /minimalist wardrobe you need white t-shirts, black pants, a black leather jacket and so on. Turns out I nearly never enjoy wearing black or white (I have one white and one black summer dress each, and then some funeral clothes, hoping I don't really need them), and donated / sold all other black and white clothing and I never regretted it. For me pastel pink is more of a neutral than white
Tomorrow I'm going to take some time and switch over my wardrobe from summer to fall (I have not much space and need to put off-season clothes into storage), summer is definitely over by now.
The capsules always say "trench coat" but those never flatter me or feel comfortable, no matter how hard I try. This year I snagged a longer Patagonia coat at NAS. It's comfortable and flattering and functional. I now have officially given up on the trench coat!