Do wet want some new challenges in August?
How about wearing one non-black neutral per week (whatever is a neutral for you)
How about wearing one non-black neutral per week (whatever is a neutral for you)
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I think it is cyclical. There are times I buy a lot of stuff, and other times nothing impresses me.Dyou think we all kind of go through cycles? When you browse through the rest of the forum, it seems like people go through a collector phase and then just calm down. And then regret some purchases. And then don't really "collect" with the same fervor again.
Don't know what that will mean for LVMH & Co. Especially as all the young gen-z women that I know are actually very well disciplined (at least compared to me!) in buying bags, even when they can afford them.
I hate feeling trapped in my clothes. I've had a few pairs of boots that are too hard to get on and off, and I've gotten rid of them.I love a sort of "taller" ankle boot if that makes sense. Tall enough to stuff the skinny jeans inside but don't quite go past mid-calf.
I have 1 pair of Hermes and SL boots of that style and they are on rotation every fall/winter. The Hermes are more clean and sleek while the SL are a little edgier.
And then I go all the way to the other side of the spectrum with over the knee boots. I have that classic suede Stuart Weiztman OTK boot that we all went crazy about in the 2000s/2010s lol. But I left them in China with my in-laws because I had a little too much fun shoppingand couldn't bring everything back.
Every fall/winter I debate on knee high boots. Being in California I probably would only wear them fall/winter. But I also have trouble finding a pair that fits my large calves.It's not a great combo to have narrow feet but large calves.
And I'm not into the sort of slouchy folded knee high boot. I prefer the kind that are sleek and hug the calves.
Basically all of my boots are black. I do have a pair of Burberry sock boots with the classic plaid print but I'm debating on letting them go. I realize they're such a pain to take off. I need my husband to help me pull them off lol. I've also realized that when it comes to boots, I prefer ones that I can slip in and out more easily. (The SW OTK boots have enough give/stretch that I can still take them off in a hurry.)
I have no intentions of buying anything else but then I see something I like - and the next thing you know I've bought it. I feel sad for all the things that aren't getting used, or aren't getting used enough. This summer I have been wearing one pair of sandals and one pair of white sneakers almost exclusively. Why do I have so many other choices if I'm not using them? Some of them are new too.I don't know if I'm in a not interested in buying mindset. But I'm hitting my pet peeve of keeping things that I almost never wear mindset lol.
Mainly for bags and shoes. I get annoyed each year at these items every season that I either don't wear at all or maybe wear 1-2 times. I know it's not a great time to sell, but my urge of purging them may be stronger than keeping them lol.
I have never had sellers regret and I know when I've mentally/emotionally let go of things, usually long before they're finally sold.
I may just be saying goodbye to some things this month. 🤔
and visually, the labubu doll actually is the stuff of nightmares for some people...On the hand, we're told Gen Z are obsessed about Labubu and other trends.
I don't think ridiculously priced bags, jewellery, clothes, or any other luxury item beyond maybe a the odd bit of makeup should ever be targeted and marketed towards men and women in their teens and twenties.
yeah, I think your pattern fits that of a consumer who knows what they want and steadily purchases according to their taste.💯 I buy only one or two permanent bags a year, if that. I don’t count a few straw bags, but I don’t need any more of those.
I intend on wearing all of my bags for many years. I derive most fun from my RTW, which I buy to suit my taste. And, if I love it, I wear it irrespective of current trends. But, I buy less but better. This year, except for some travel/ insect repellant clothing lol, I can count the number of RTW and bags I’ve bought.
I am with you I rarely regret selling something.I don't know if I'm in a not interested in buying mindset. But I'm hitting my pet peeve of keeping things that I almost never wear mindset lol.
Mainly for bags and shoes. I get annoyed each year at these items every season that I either don't wear at all or maybe wear 1-2 times. I know it's not a great time to sell, but my urge of purging them may be stronger than keeping them lol.
I have never had sellers regret and I know when I've mentally/emotionally let go of things, usually long before they're finally sold.
I may just be saying goodbye to some things this month. 🤔
@papertiger- thanks for starting this thread. I always read the threads here and there in years past, but even though this year is 2/3 done, great to read.Thanks @papertiger for setting up the 2025 thread!
2025 Goals (for now)
My husband and I will be traveling this spring. Not planning to buy anything when we travel but that’s what I always tell myself and it never happens lol.
- Still my usual 2 new bags max a year with the 1 in, 1 out policy.
- Still always a focus on cost per wear
- Not sure about RTW, that’s a WIP
- Will try to not buy any black, white, nude or beige shoes. I think I have plenty lol.
So for Q1 2025 I plan to have a no buy quarter. No buy for shoes, clothes, bags, jewelry, accessories, etc.
Skincare and makeup is okay if it’s a replacement but also nothing new. Also no new perfumes as well.
Let’s see how well I do lol. I’m usually pretty good with holding back on luxury goods but high street and contemporary can be sneaky! And I usually like to do the majority of my shopping at the beginning of the year lol.
Side note, one exception is I ordered a dress at the end of December which is coming in January. It’s for a summer wedding end of June. I’m a little concerned. I’ve never been to a summer wedding (all fall, winter and spring ones lol) It’s a ranch-style/barn/rustic wedding. Everything will be outside, including the dining. Summers in California are hot. I’m afraid of getting roasted by the sun and eaten alive by mosquitoes lol. (I remember attending a funeral in August years ago and it was a nightmare.)
Any tips and tricks would be helpful, thank you!
and visually, the labubu doll actually is the stuff of nightmares for some people...
yes I think the dopamine rush from purchasing has to find an outlet... and then corporates will seize it to make money.
but in all seriousness, I'm quite impressed with the gen-zs I know, and they come from a wide range of financial backgrounds, they explicitly prioritise saving and investing and will do their research on ETFs (although I'm sure there are some who just lob their savings into meme stocks). There are lots more brokerages these days, lower cost, and they actively advertise to young consumers.
I wish that had been advertised to me when I was their age 10 years ago, instead of the ridiculously priced bags and clothes!
I don't know if I'm in a not interested in buying mindset. But I'm hitting my pet peeve of keeping things that I almost never wear mindset lol.
Mainly for bags and shoes. I get annoyed each year at these items every season that I either don't wear at all or maybe wear 1-2 times. I know it's not a great time to sell, but my urge of purging them may be stronger than keeping them lol.
I have never had sellers regret and I know when I've mentally/emotionally let go of things, usually long before they're finally sold.
I may just be saying goodbye to some things this month. 🤔
I have no intentions of buying anything else but then I see something I like - and the next thing you know I've bought it. I feel sad for all the things that aren't getting used, or aren't getting used enough. This summer I have been wearing one pair of sandals and one pair of white sneakers almost exclusively. Why do I have so many other choices if I'm not using them? Some of them are new too.
yeah, I think your pattern fits that of a consumer who knows what they want and steadily purchases according to their taste.
But I'd be curious to see how much of the luxury spending was propped up / boosted by people who are the opposite and were happily buying to collect / as a trend, and have now lost interest. I was definitely that way about 5 years ago? And just when I got off the treadmill, it seemed like a whole crowd got on, post-pandemic. We'd probably find out soon with LVMH & Kering results over the next couple of quarter!
Your H and SL boots sound lovely: would love to see a pic if/when possible (I know most of our boots are probably not picture-ready as it's still summer and they're probably in storage.)I love a sort of "taller" ankle boot if that makes sense. Tall enough to stuff the skinny jeans inside but don't quite go past mid-calf.
I have 1 pair of Hermes and SL boots of that style and they are on rotation every fall/winter. The Hermes are more clean and sleek while the SL are a little edgier.
And then I go all the way to the other side of the spectrum with over the knee boots. I have that classic suede Stuart Weiztman OTK boot that we all went crazy about in the 2000s/2010s lol. But I left them in China with my in-laws because I had a little too much fun shoppingand couldn't bring everything back.
Every fall/winter I debate on knee high boots. Being in California I probably would only wear them fall/winter. But I also have trouble finding a pair that fits my large calves.It's not a great combo to have narrow feet but large calves.
And I'm not into the sort of slouchy folded knee high boot. I prefer the kind that are sleek and hug the calves.
Basically all of my boots are black. I do have a pair of Burberry sock boots with the classic plaid print but I'm debating on letting them go. I realize they're such a pain to take off. I need my husband to help me pull them off lol. I've also realized that when it comes to boots, I prefer ones that I can slip in and out more easily. (The SW OTK boots have enough give/stretch that I can still take them off in a hurry.)
Like you, I can’t stand the idea of selling. 10 years ago or more, selling used to be easier and more fun. Now there are too many scammers and too much competition. So I’ll likely die with what I have. I still have 3 bags on consignment at Ann’s Fabulous Finds that have been there for months. If they can’t sell them, I know I would have no luck doing so.I'm not planning on buying any bags in the near future but I wouldn't say I'm entirely restful: there are still bags I want. I just don't have the space for them or the lifestyle to regularly use and rotate a larger collection. I would like to tweak my bag collection a little bit including switching out my jumbo (which feels a bit big for me personally) for maybe a reissue 225 or 226, and my pastel blue Trendy CC for a black one (or maybe a different bag altogether). But I'm not energized at the thought of selling, especially in the current market so I have just let things be.
Can you have some of the well loved pieces tailored?I have trouble parting with older pieces, but like wearing well fitting clothes..I’m trying not to regret anything, knowing that I can replace with better fitting pieces.
My collection has been relatively stable for about 8-9 years. So I don’t think this is part of that collect / rest cycle.Dyou think we all kind of go through cycles? When you browse through the rest of the forum, it seems like people go through a collector phase and then just calm down. And then regret some purchases. And then don't really "collect" with the same fervor again.
Don't know what that will mean for LVMH & Co. Especially as all the young gen-z women that I know are actually very well disciplined (at least compared to me!) in buying bags, even when they can afford them.
I have been purging all year. And every time I think I’m done, scales fall from my eyes and I “see” more things that need to go. I’m sure knowing this is wasted money is also contributing to my disinterest in bag buying.I don't know if I'm in a not interested in buying mindset. But I'm hitting my pet peeve of keeping things that I almost never wear mindset lol.
Mainly for bags and shoes. I get annoyed each year at these items every season that I either don't wear at all or maybe wear 1-2 times. I know it's not a great time to sell, but my urge of purging them may be stronger than keeping them lol.
I have never had sellers regret and I know when I've mentally/emotionally let go of things, usually long before they're finally sold.
I may just be saying goodbye to some things this month. 🤔
I see other people look stylish in over the knee boots and feel I just look like an awkward pirate.Your H and SL boots sound lovely: would love to see a pic if/when possible (I know most of our boots are probably not picture-ready as it's still summer and they're probably in storage.)
I never quite got into over-the-knee boots but definitely remember the Stuart Weitzman OTK boot craze from years ago. Slouchy boots are not my thing either and I too prefer sleek leather boots.
I've come to realize that when it comes to most of my footwear (other than maybe some evening footwear), I prefer those that I can slip in and out of easily. Those are the ones that get worn frequently while the others tend to languish in the closet. Sock boots in general are harder to put on and take off. I'm not surprised that you're thinking of letting go of your Burberry sock boots...
Yes, I am not a fan of selling and this has made me more thoughtful about bag acquisitions since I don't want to be bothered with selling because I didn't think it through properly before buying. The thing is, I'm not entirely sure I absolutely want the reissue or a Trendy CC in black. So I could conceivably let go of my blue bag and the jumbo and still be fine in terms of collection usage and needs. I already have the classic flap medium in black lambskin and the medium size black coco handle and probably don't really need another black Chanel bag. As for the reissue, I tend to go back and forth on it. So it's easier for me to just not do anything at the moment. I might wait till bag sales in general pick up and then just let these two bags go and not add anything.Like you, I can’t stand the idea of selling. 10 years ago or more, selling used to be easier and more fun. Now there are too many scammers and too much competition. So I’ll likely die with what I have. I still have 3 bags on consignment at Ann’s Fabulous Finds that have been there for months. If they can’t sell them, I know I would have no luck doing so.
I recall the jumbo was such a desirable bag several years ago and lots of people really wanted it. And then small bags became popular and then it went even further with the mini and micro bag trends. But I think the tide may be turning. For the last several years, people have been saying that big bags are coming back but I often felt that it was more wishful thinking than anything else. However, this year I'm noticing that a large (suede) hobo appears to be the desirable bag for fall and in general, I feel like I'm seeing more large bags with top handles being carried. It may not happen immediately but I think the trend is shifting back to big bags and the jumbo might well be back in full swing. I think most of yours are single flaps too, and those are very easy to use. So yes, think of ways to style them and wear them often - they're beautiful bags.I’m not up to selling so I’ll be grateful I have them and start wearing them more often.