2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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I think one of my hardest parts is seeing all the “mes” I used to be. The Japanese woodblock collector, the 1930-1970s animation expert, the restorer, the Pearl dealer. The poet and the painter and the glass artist. I’m not that person any more. But I miss her. So I held onto her “stuff” in case she came back - does that make any sense all?

And now I have to say “look, she’s left. And I’m here. So, let’s make space for the me of now, and not the person I used to be.”
You have a lot of interests, it totally makes sense to me that you honour her things. All of those interests have played a part in making who you are today. Can you take a photo of groups of those artifacts and create a photo collage before releasing some items that might make someone else happy?
 
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So you may remember that H Faco Box Clutch I bought on an impulse. I went to pick it up today. It comes in the original discolored orange H box and on top, the seller had placed a handwritten note. It wishes me happy Christmas and it explains that the bag had belonged to the seller’s mother in law who was “a lover of beautiful things”. The seller hopes I will honor her memory by carrying and enjoying the clutch.

I found the message so sweet and moving, I have not opened the box but placed it directly under the Christmas tree. When I open it tomorrow (can‘t wait) I will send a greeting to that fellow lover of beautiful things, wherever she is.

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I am glad you bought this clutch. What a lovely message from the seller. I’ve read in some (H?) threads that we are merely caretakers of these beautiful things ... I hope you enjoy your new clutch.
Happiest of holidays to everyone and sending wishes for a better 2021!
 
Added one more bag to make the 5 challenge for this month. I had to walk to an appointment near the centre of the city in which I live this afternoon. I was going to take my new Alexa but thought I’d branch out and carry a different bag for this challenge! Mulberry Mini Cara seemed the perfect option for the 5.5km walk each way. Big enough for essentials, small enough to carry easily and wears as a backpack so very practical. I love the Steel Blue colour and quilting on this bag. The leather is thick but really soft and feels so good!

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1. Mulberry new Alexa Icon
2. Coach Signature Central Zip Tote
3. Mulberry Tessie Hobo
4. Kate Spade Daily Small
Satchel
5. Mulberry mini Cara
This mini Cara is so pretty. I enjoyed the pics of the bags you carried, a beautiful selection!
 
Thank-you so much @More bags! This thread a huge impact on me this year. When I joined I was totally overwhelmed by that strange longing to get a handbag of status, to prove I can do this and you all picked me up in a warm embrace and picked my confused mind, brought me on the track of getting to know myself, find out what I really like, actually curate not only my handbags, but lots of other belongings and aspects of my life, too.
I´ve learned so much this year and not only about bags, found knowledge as a background and last but not least quite a few handbags I truly love and that are exactly me!
I admire your strong sense of self and that you’ve searched for and found a number of beautiful bags that delight you and bring you joy!
Wishing all of you Merry Christmas!

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We put up our Christmas tree this afternoon. It might not be a classic beauty, but it´s perfect to us: the tree came from our yard. It was growing out of a wall and would have had to be cut anyway. The baubles and lights came from a garbage pile at the curb years ago. Some old lady must have died or moved to an old peoples´home and all her "worthless" belongings ended at the curb- the baubles carefully packed in their original grey cardboard boxes.
Beautiful tree and I like your story of caring for someone else’s once treasured items and making them your own, like @doni and her new to her clutch.
 
I last bought a bag in July this year. After that, the reality of people having financial difficulties during this pandemic hit me. While I have a stable job, I felt that I have to spend more wisely. Plus, since I have been staying more in the house, there are a lot of things I’ve noticed that need some fixing.

Maybe it’s a good thing too that I went back to an old hobby - baking. It got my mind off bags a bit.

Btw, I received a gift, a Coach Mercer. In oxblood. While I like this Coach style, I have also a beloved Mulberry Small Zipped Bayswater in oxblood! Not exactly the same shape, but fairly close style. But the gift is not something I can return or ask for a replacement or give to somebody else, or much more sell. So I suppose I will keep it even if it’s some kind of a duplicate. What would you do?
Wear it when I know the person is going to see it on me. Then I hold it for a year or two and sell. Though sometimes I end up really liking it once I have given it a chance.
 
I would re-gift the Mercer since it's brand new, if at all possible. Do you know anyone who could use a professional bag like that but perhaps could not afford to buy one for themselves?
Or if you're willing and able, there are charities for people looking to return to the workforce like Dress for Success (or similar alternatives) where a bag like that would really give someone a big step up as they start or return to their careers. Especially this year given how many will be unemployed and looking to start over.
Of course, you can choose to keep it and enjoy it. They may be similar bags but they're not exact duplicates, so perhaps you'd find the Coach fits in well in your bag closet somehow without competing with the Mulberry? They're both special bags!


What a great idea! I'll look for the instant stuff when I'm next at the store. I would never be able to make it authentically, but I think I can do the 'just add water' approach and not mess it up, lol.
They had some fresh Ube and I really wanted to grab one, but I wouldn't know what to do with it. I'll be looking at some easy recipes so that I can buy one next time as well and experiment in the kitchen.
If nothing else, this will bring back fond memories. :smile:

How exciting! It can be a lot of fun to change up the look of a bag entirely.
Unfortunately, this bag is not faring well. Most of the yellow dye has come off, but some of it is stubbornly adhered to the leather. It just looks bad. :P
The bag itself has kept its shape and should be good to use after it dries. I'll either dye it black and let it go since I never liked it much, or I'll buy some Angelus dye in yellow and do the job correctly. I'll decide later.
Sorry to hear it didn’t all come out...but nice to know the bag is not completely dead.
 
Can you take a photo of groups of those artifacts and create a photo collage before releasing some items that might make someone else happy?
Brilliant idea!

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Which reminds me, I meant to comment on these points earlier and forgot! :blush:....
I think one of my hardest parts is seeing all the “mes” I used to be. The Japanese woodblock collector, the 1930-1970s animation expert, the restorer, the Pearl dealer. The poet and the painter and the glass artist. I’m not that person any more. But I miss her. So I held onto her “stuff” in case she came back - does that make any sense all?

And now I have to say “look, she’s left. And I’m here. So, let’s make space for the me of now, and not the person I used to be.”
This makes so much sense to me. It's exactly where I'm at right now. I feel like this year has both taken me back to my roots, my core values, but also forced me to change. I'm not the 'me' I used to be and now I have to make space for the person I'm growing into.
We are always changing and evolving...it’s natural. The world does not stop doing it and we adapt along with it. We can’t stop the river, nor can we try to stop moving in it. The current keeps going and will start to erode us if we do. The best we can do is try to stay pointed in the right direction and guide ourselves while riding it. Remain true to your core values, your core self.....that is staying pointed in the right direction. Using that direction as a guide for steering...that is using our core self to guide our thoughts and actions. But the world is what the world is...sometimes there is a lot of turbulence and things move very fast. Sometimes we veer off course, but we are still moving. At those times we do the best we can with what we are able to do. That’s it. Our journey ends on the day we die and until then we will never reach our destination, just stay true to the right path to get there.
My dad once told me something I have never forgotten...the day we stop learning is the day we die. There are several ways to apply this, but all are true.
So true! Thank you for this reminder that we have to flow with life. Your dad's statement is succinct yet powerful! Words to live by. :tup:
 
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I just backread more than 10 pages! It had been hectic at work plus I got migraine and mild vertigo attack. Yesterday and today are much more relaxed, thankfully.
I managed to complete the 5-bag challenge this December! I know I posted until bag 3 before (Proenza Schouler tote, Longchamp Le Pliage Club and Givenchy Pandora).
Bag 4 - Coach Cassie (old photo here)
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Bag 5 - Saint Laurent East Side(?) tote
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Beautiful bags, I always like seeing your happy Cassie!
 
Yep, based on this bag I can't say I'd recommend them. Not sure if their other bags are better as it's not a brand I gravitate towards or have handled much. I've learned that I like only Coach and Hammitt at these price points ($100-350-ish). Most other brands are just letdowns.

The dye was just a random one I picked up in an art supply store. The brand name is written in what appears to be Mandarin, so I couldn't tell you! :lol:
I picked it because the colour looked so pretty- and it really is! Such a shame that it didn't work out.

*Edit to add that Angelus has never given me any issues (I've dyed bags and shoes repeatedly with no problems), and whilst I don't personally like working with Jacquard leather paints, they are still excellent and do what they're intended to do. Lesson learned: use brands that are established and do not experiment with random dyes! :P


Yay! Happy to see you back! I was wondering where you'd gone. :smile:
So sorry to hear about the migraine and vertigo. They often come on together, unfortunately. I hope you continue to feel better. :hugs:
Love both your bags. The strap on the Saint Laurent is so much fun.

Also, you won't believe this but I found some Sapin Sapin at the Asian market and I gobbled it up! It didn't taste the same as I remembered it but it was still such fun to eat. :lol:
Thanks for giving me the correct name. :hugs:
Eeek, sorry to hear about your bag. I hope you can successfully refurbish it.
 
I want to hear how it turns out! What those Coach ladies do is AMAZING! What brand/leather type is the one you have? Curious to see if the same technique works as well in other types of leather than the thick chewy vintage Coach leather.

No matter what the price, I think I would about cry to get a chalky, nasty looking mess like that!
Nothing dunks as well as vintage Coach. Once I dunked a Fossil. It got ugly stains along all the seams as they had used glue and it melted. I dunked a newer Coach once. The water I used was too hot and melted off the dark edge coating, but not the clear edge coating that was underneath. I liked the way the edges looked with the clear edges but the melted brown edge coating left little brown stains everywhere. I had to dye the entire bag.
 
Question....any of you ladies familiar with vintage Fendi canvas. I am basically done buying bags, but have one hole left. I want a cute little coated canvas shoulder or crossbody bag and have not seen an LV I love for the money they want. I have seen some in Fendi, but I know nothing about the brand’s canvas. I see it wears differently than LV/Gucci coated canvas from how some pre-loved look. Would love more info.

I've never had an LV in my hands so I can't say how it compares to Fendi. I've had a few Fendis. One was the thin striped canvas in very poor condition. I had to repaint the stripes. Then I covered the entire thing with polyurethane. I liked the way it came out. I had another bag with the wider stripes. It was in very good condition so I didn't do anything to it. I also had a coin purse in horrible condition. The lining had flaked. I used fabric puff paint to give it a smooth surface.
 

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I last bought a bag in July this year. After that, the reality of people having financial difficulties during this pandemic hit me. While I have a stable job, I felt that I have to spend more wisely. Plus, since I have been staying more in the house, there are a lot of things I’ve noticed that need some fixing.

Maybe it’s a good thing too that I went back to an old hobby - baking. It got my mind off bags a bit.

Btw, I received a gift, a Coach Mercer. In oxblood. While I like this Coach style, I have also a beloved Mulberry Small Zipped Bayswater in oxblood! Not exactly the same shape, but fairly close style. But the gift is not something I can return or ask for a replacement or give to somebody else, or much more sell. So I suppose I will keep it even if it’s some kind of a duplicate. What would you do?
Either get one of the bags dyed or changed in a way so they aren't as close. Maybe have some embellishments added to the Coach by Coach Create.
 
I've never had an LV in my hands so I can't say how it compares to Fendi. I've had a few Fendis. One was the thin striped canvas in very poor condition. I had to repaint the stripes. Then I covered the entire thing with polyurethane. I liked the way it came out. I had another bag with the wider stripes. It was in very good condition so I didn't do anything to it. I also had a coin purse in horrible condition. The lining had flaked. I used fabric puff paint to give it a smooth surface.
Ok, so you can color it. I was wondering about that. You can’t really do that with LV. Is it flexible or stiff? If it has started to crease, is it toast...like will it start to flake off. Is it bare fabric with the color in the coating? Is it worth getting an inexpensive bag and rehab it or is it worth it to spend more for one in better condition?
 
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